It has just been the Easter holidays and I work time so I am off all the school holidays. I booked a few days holiday for my dc and I. I only told two people I was going away.
my husband has non harassment orders in place against him at the moment.
I have returned from the holiday to discover that for 3 of the days he has been in and out the house. I had the front door lock changed . He has managed to turn off the internal cameras somehow before coming in , possibly by switching the power off I. The garage before he climbed a 6ft fence and let himself in, he has taken things out of the home.
it would be reasonable to expect me to be around in the holidays and that I could return home at any point, someone also accesses my Facebook page from an older phone (it just happens to be the model I had previously that was in the bedside drawers) my Facebook record shows that on that day someone has looked up several of my friends including names of people I don’t know
the only way I can see him arguing that he knew I wouldn’t return was that he had accessed my messenger messages .
i have contacted the police and they are coming to speak to me
The officer on the phone wasn’t sure if it was a breach
the fact that I was on holiday should surely be irrelevant as he should not have known
i know 100% that the 2 people who knew have not told him
I now fear for the safety of my dc, myself and pets, has he done this before? Will he do it again when I am Not here ?
anyone with advice is much appreciated 🙏