Guilty for not taking ds

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I'm meant to be meeting up with adult ds tomorrow to go for a meal. Its just me him and teen dd. The thing is I'm not taking ds17. And we are going behinde his back. The reason for this is because he's to much . He constantly over talks people . We can't actually have a conversation when he's with us. He accuses dd of looking at him. Or there's snide remarks . And it just ruins the whole vibe. I have tried to talk to him many times but it changes nothing. I feel really guilty but I also feel like I need a break from him.

Crikey. Well I hope you don't expect him to be ok about it when he inevitably finds out. This is really mean.

There is more back story to it . He's been violent abd aggressive in the past and i have had a really hard time with him. It's been awful. He's got better compared to what he was . But he's still very hard work and sometimes I need a break . Also sometimes we want to be able to chat and we can't when he's there.

But also thinking about it he does stuff as well. About a month ago he went to a concert with adult dd. Yesterday he went London with adult dd.

But yes I do feel mean about it.