I turned 31 a few months ago and feel a little like life has passed me by. I know that sounds really silly in a way, however I spent my 20s feeling very insecure and depressed, and now feel like I look old (and borderline overweight). Have two DC 2 and 5, 5 Yo has ASD and very high needs to feels like the past 5 years of no sleep has finally caught up to me and I feel old and crap. Everything hurts. Hoping someone comes along to tell me that they suddenly got a new zest for life past 30!