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Can't do anything right!!

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RachelsTrifle · 10/04/2024 00:20

Ugh, just had a 'sort of' argument with my 'sort of' boyfriend. I really like him but I seem to do everything wrong and I always seem to be upsetting him.

My life is so complicated right now and when things are good he makes me feel amazing but I keep messing things up!

I dont even know why I'm writing this but he's gone to sleep and I need to vent somewhere!!

Anyone awake to distract me?

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BresciaBike · 10/04/2024 00:50

I'm pretty damn certain that you are not the problem here nor are you doing everything wrong

lovelysoap · 10/04/2024 01:01

He isn’t adding to your life he makes you feel bad about yourself, confused and insecure. He’s a fair weather friend and you’re not even committed to one another. Throw this one back op.

DramaAlpaca · 10/04/2024 01:11

I agree with the previous posters. It's very unlikely you're the problem here. It's not you messing things up.

Mmhmmn · 10/04/2024 01:16

Difficult person making your life difficult and stressful. Dump, OP. You don’t need that shit in your life. No-one does. You were happier without him and will be again, I feel sure of that.

savethatkitty · 10/04/2024 01:23

Oh honey, when a guy wants to pick at you & look for faults, they will say/do anything to justify it. Take solace in this; a man who wanted to dump me once told me "my pooh's were too smelly". Yes, I have smelly pooh (& I use toilet spray afterwards). This was said by a guy who also had smelly pooh but did not use toilet spray. General rule of thumb; if someone's taken a shit in the toilet, don't go in there straight away! Unless absolutely desperate

RachelsTrifle · 10/04/2024 01:58

Thank you ladies 😘

When he's good he's great but he really makes me doubt myself a lot of the time and generally I don't feel like I've even done anything wrong!
You're right, it's just not worth it.

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RachelsTrifle · 10/04/2024 01:59

savethatkitty · 10/04/2024 01:23

Oh honey, when a guy wants to pick at you & look for faults, they will say/do anything to justify it. Take solace in this; a man who wanted to dump me once told me "my pooh's were too smelly". Yes, I have smelly pooh (& I use toilet spray afterwards). This was said by a guy who also had smelly pooh but did not use toilet spray. General rule of thumb; if someone's taken a shit in the toilet, don't go in there straight away! Unless absolutely desperate

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savethatkitty this is mad, why are men such nightmares??

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