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I saw the absolute best of humanity today

19 replies

Busterfoot193 · 09/04/2024 20:15

My lovely niece has quite complex special needs. She's old enough now for me to take her out for the day on my own, something I've never been able to do before. I was a little apprehensive about it-her behaviour can be difficult to manage at times.

Anyway, off we went to a local farm/petting zoo type of place.

Oh my goodness, I can't believe how absolutely wonderful everyone was. The staff, the other visitors. They were all so kind, patient and understanding. So many people took the time to try and understand her and engage with her. I came away feeling like I wanted to cry happy tears.

I just wanted to throw a Thank-you out to the universe. It meant the world and its given me the confidence to take her on many more little adventures.

OP posts:
WinterDeWinter · 09/04/2024 20:22

How absolutely lovely OP, I'm so pleased for you both.

Maybeicanhelpyou · 09/04/2024 20:23

A lovely story. There are good people out there

jollygreenpea · 09/04/2024 20:27

It's sad that we are constantly bombarded with negativity we forget that actually most people are nice and good things do happen.

Glad you enjoyed your day, hope your niece did as well.

Fluffywigg · 09/04/2024 20:29

What a lovely post!

ghostbusters · 09/04/2024 20:30

That's wonderful to read!
Make sure you send your positive feedback to the venue you were at too :)

Fannyfiggs · 09/04/2024 20:34

Oh @Busterfoot193 I'm crying happy tears with you. What a great day for you and your lovely niece. I'm so happy you both experienced genuine kindness.

FinallyHere · 09/04/2024 20:35

Aahhh, thank you for posting. It was just what I needed to read this evening.

BettyShagter · 09/04/2024 20:39

That's wonderful OP and long may it continue.

ASighMadeOfStone · 09/04/2024 20:41

That's lovely. Glad you had a lovely day. ❤️

AreYouShittingMe · 09/04/2024 20:45

Thank you for the reminder- very much needed today.
Glad you had such a wonderful experience, and I hope your niece had a lovely day too.
People are pretty great on the whole, but this often gets overshadowed by the idiots.

Busterfoot193 · 09/04/2024 20:49

jollygreenpea · 09/04/2024 20:27

It's sad that we are constantly bombarded with negativity we forget that actually most people are nice and good things do happen.

Glad you enjoyed your day, hope your niece did as well.

Absolutely!! I was ready for people to be judgemental. I thought people might assume I'm her mum and judge me for not knowing how to look after her/manage her behaviour, I couldn't have been more wrong.

There are some wonderful people out there and I know a lot of the parents there today would have been feeling frazzled-it was very busy, the weather was atrocious but everyone we encountered were kind.

The staff were amazing, it started with the chap directing the parking, set the tone for the whole day.

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Motnight · 09/04/2024 20:56

So pleased that you and your niece had a lovely day, Op ☺️

AllTheMiniEggs · 09/04/2024 21:10

This has made me smile so much!

Thank you for sharing.

BOOTS52PollyPrissyPants · 09/04/2024 22:35

That is so lovely and it will give you the confidence to have more outings with her that you both enjoy.
I was struggling the other days with shopping bags as going from one supermarket to another and this woman stopped in her car and asked could she give me a lift anywhere. It nearly made me cry, and it happened before. Made me realize that there are still kind people out there. Need to invest in one of those pull along trolleys before my shoulder is broke.

BettyShagter · 09/04/2024 22:43

Please do review them on Google and TripAdvisor if you can.

MrsKeats · 09/04/2024 22:45

That's brilliant op.
It's nice to have a reminder that there are good people about.
The good review is a great idea too.

Angelsrose · 09/04/2024 22:48

This is beautiful. Thanks for sharing

KeeeeeepDancing · 09/04/2024 23:07

BettyShagter · 09/04/2024 22:43

Please do review them on Google and TripAdvisor if you can.

That's a lovely idea

GoodnightAdeline · 09/04/2024 23:09

I think we’ve come a long way with acceptance and understanding of disability and difference, which is great. Glad you had a good day (and her!)

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