Wow....Yes, I definitely agree with you.
We lost our Dad too, to Cancer.
Our Dad died at home, expected.
The knocking ghost... I was so sure it was grandparents from a nearby village passing, and when I asked them, they said ''We'd never call that late- and would ring the bell''.
It was an estate agent who relayed the message to mum and dad {years ago} that the new neighbour also heard knocking.
It was so real, so loud- But no where for anyone to hide.
Have you listened to ''Danny Robbins'' on BBC Radio Sounds ? He has some fascinating stories on there- including ''The Witch Farm'' about Heol Fanog in Wales..I had the book ''Testimony'' years ago, and it scared me.
Worth a listen if you are into that kind of stuff.
your Dad passing...I hope our Dads are in a better place- I had a dream about Dad and it was very soothing- I also had a very vivid dream about a friend's partner who had died of sepsis at home.
They were separated , and he'd phoned her to say he was ill.
She said ''"you are just hungover''...but he wasn't.
He was acutely ill, and no one knew.
He was found on the floor, poor soul.
But...when /I went to stay overnight at his ex's house, I had a very vivid dream.
The doorbell rang, /I answered it, and it was her ex, looking well and fit again..I said ''{Name, you are supposed to be dead?!- he replied, I am, I have just come to tell you I'm OK...I asked what it was like? he said ''I can't tell you {with a smile} and then he said he had to go.
He was wearing a red T shirt, jeans and a brown leather belt.
I also dreamed of Dad who said he's understood things better now, {that he was on the other side}
Could it just be imagination and wishful thinking?
Who knows.
The dark shadow you saw.. that sounds a bit creepy, too.
A friend has seem what she is sure are ''spirit'' animals -
A horse was being schooled early one morning - she looked again, and nothing- no horse or rider.
She was pushing through a hedge on a walk, and heard a horse snort in surprise- but no horse was there
Oh my goodness!!
my dog who never barks just barked sharply and is now whining!!!
I',m all over goosebumps!