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Do these messages make me sound rude?

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Lilllypad11 · 08/04/2024 18:57

ran a flat tyre at work today and I usually wear glasses. Didn’t have them on in a frantic panic because I needed to get to a hospital appointment.

So, I accidentally called this guy I’d been on some dates with who hadn’t yet replied, so then frantically panicked about that because he went “everything okay?” So I said “ffs I’m sorry I didn’t mean to call you!” He then said something else like “what happened” I said “oh sorry I don’t have my glasses on I didn’t need you I need my dad I’ve just run a flat tyre and need to get to the hospital so I’m a bit stressed! I’m sorry!”

now I feel like I look like a complete psycho. Help? I also have awful anxiety too.

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ClemmyTine · 08/04/2024 18:58

Not rude at all.

Lemsipper · 08/04/2024 19:00

Nope, seems normal

PlasticOno · 08/04/2024 19:01

No, you sound flustered, as you presumably were.

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Lilllypad11 · 08/04/2024 19:01

PlasticOno · 08/04/2024 19:01

No, you sound flustered, as you presumably were.

Honestly. Just in a complete flap of life

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persisted · 08/04/2024 19:02

I'd just message him to explain the mistake properly and why you were in a bit of a state.
You don't look like a psycho, just someone having a bad day who got in a panic.

Any decent person wouldn't have a problem with that, we all have our moments.

Lilllypad11 · 08/04/2024 19:02

ClemmyTine · 08/04/2024 18:58

Not rude at all.

Okay good. I was worried the ffs sounded rude or nasty. Or the “no I didn’t need you I needed my dad”

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HauntedPencil · 08/04/2024 19:03

Sounds fine! I'd just message a jokey sorry in a flap earlier type message later. I would have just been amused

Lilllypad11 · 08/04/2024 19:19

persisted · 08/04/2024 19:02

I'd just message him to explain the mistake properly and why you were in a bit of a state.
You don't look like a psycho, just someone having a bad day who got in a panic.

Any decent person wouldn't have a problem with that, we all have our moments.

He hasn’t replied to the part where I explained myself so I think I need to hold fire I already sound nuts😂

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