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Shocked at the term "elderly" for a 56 year old.

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Blondiebeachbabe · 06/04/2024 15:06

Just watching a crime documentary, and the murderer was a 56 year old woman. The Cop talking to the camera, was saying how he couldn't believe that the murderer turned out to be an elderly lady. WTF? I'm 54 and don't feel "elderly" whatsoever. Whilst my own kids are adults, I know plenty of people in their 50's who still have kids at school!

What age do you think constitutes elderly? For me, I'd say 70+ (whilst acknowledging that many people that age are perfectly fit, well and able).

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Bignanna · 16/06/2024 15:55

If 56 is elderly, I must be crumbly!

Caththegreat · 25/06/2024 17:25

Stop using the word ' elderly'.it is ageist.

BruFord · 25/06/2024 18:26

Caththegreat · 25/06/2024 17:25

Stop using the word ' elderly'.it is ageist.

@Caththegreat Really?

My Dad (86) is definitely elderly, what other term could we use?

Geriatric sounds far worse as it implies decline; old isn’t particularly nice either.

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DisabledDemon · 30/09/2024 19:38

QueenofTheBorg · 06/04/2024 15:15

70+ - definitely not 50s!

Absolutely! And when I get to 70, I shall regard 80 as elderly.

Pussygaloregalapagos · 05/10/2024 06:51

I have always seen it like this 0-30 young 30-60 middle age 60+ old age.

I am 52 and creak when I get up.

I suspect only elderly spoke get offended at tv shows. 😉

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 05/10/2024 06:55

Hilarious. Yes, you’re definitely not elderly. I’d say 75 + until I am that age myself and then I’ll move it to 80+

PersephoneAgrees · 05/10/2024 06:57

I'm 64 and I am not elderly, I won't be retiring for another 2 years and I am fit, active and lucky to be very healthy. My husband is retired but I still wouldn't class him as elderly. Elderly suggests frail. My 90yo mum and 97yo dad are definitely elderly.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 05/10/2024 16:24

Pussygaloregalapagos · 05/10/2024 06:51

I have always seen it like this 0-30 young 30-60 middle age 60+ old age.

I am 52 and creak when I get up.

I suspect only elderly spoke get offended at tv shows. 😉

Middle aged at 30?!!!

😂

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