Hi
Sure v conmon!
Basically have a great life. Married 20yrs , had 3 kids in 20s (1 adhd which is tiring).
Some family his side, mine toxic
Both have good well paid jobs but higher stress/ longer hours now. Cant go PT. Done well for ourselves etc
Basically graduated 20yrs ago, hit 40 birthday. Kids now 10-15 ages. Kind of what next?
I want to move to seaside, isnt possible until youngest is 18 (state school not great but keep them there). I have thyroid issue so hard to lose weight, still 3st overweight after baby 3 trying Mounjaro. We both have friends and go for nights out etc and I went to Malaga last year
I guess just lack of direction? I do go to church sometimes. We've started counting down to retirement hopefully mid 50s and saving for that and kids uni.
DH wants to develop a plot in our garden into a house sell and retire esrly (pay off main mortgage) as neighbours opposite have down. I just cant be bothered.
Is it just this age ? Maybe should have had kids older. Or maybe long work hours and managing kids taken its toll.