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Posh hotel un-asked for alarm at 6 - compensation?!

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hellsBells246 · 03/04/2024 05:21

Staying in a v posh hotel. Think 900 Swiss francs per night...

Just got woken up by a bloody alarm. Picked up phone and got a recorded message saying we had asked for a 6am alarm. We hadn't!! It woke us both and now we can't get back to sleep.

Rang reception, who were puzzled about the alarm but not v apologetic.

AIBU to think they could offer a small gesture to apologise?? Eg a free bottle of wine?! Or AIB greedy and mistakes happen?!

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Natsku · 05/04/2024 05:05

ugal · 04/04/2024 23:12

This is a typically snarky reply but I think the poster has given some good advice. The hotel can't actually fix what happened - if your night's sleep was ruined it was ruined (poor you, not being able to get back to sleep when you were looking forward to a lie in is annoying). But I think you'd have been better off trying to figure out a way to deal with it that made it as minimally upsetting and disruptive as possible rather than blowing it up in your head such that you couldn't move on until you had an external 'fix'. For me, this means doing what the OP suggests - not ranting about something that has annoyed you (no matter how much you might want to in the moment) but making an active decision not to give it headspace. If you can find the 'hidden' positive that's even better - I'm up early so I'll wander down and see X before the crowds, it's raining but isn't this an interesting museum. Try it next time!

I dunno about the OP but I'd really struggle to find the hidden fucking positive of being woken up several hours early! I got woken up 2 hours early this morning by DS wetting his bed, can't find any hidden positive there, all I know is I'll be dead on my feet by lunch time and my afternoon will be wasted as I'll be unable to focus.

ChorltonsWheelies · 05/04/2024 05:46

RosalindFranklin13 · 05/04/2024 01:47

It's a noise. Someone in the next room could have made a noise, too. Should they be dishing out wine?

I suspect the difference would be that one noise would be unintentional and muffled (expensive hotels usually have pretty good soundproofing too) and the other is specifically intended to wake you up, right next to your head and continues incessantly until you respond. In the place you’ve paid a lot of money for a comfortable, uninterrupted night’s sleep. Not sure that really needed explaining.

Floralie222 · 05/04/2024 06:08

Depends on their customer services attitude. You can mention it at the concierge and see what they do. I stayed in the W in Bangkok twice before (more like 150 pounds a night) and there was a problem with the lights both times and they left me an apology note and chocolate screwdriver! And a free upgrade next time I stayed there. Worth asking for sure.

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JournalistEmily · 05/04/2024 07:04

It’s annoying. I’d moan for 5 mins but I wouldn’t expect anything

RosaRoja · 05/04/2024 07:08

@Ghosttofu99 I hadn’t heard of Triangle of Sadness, so I googled and I’ll watch it if I can find it on any platforms.

hellsBells246 · 05/04/2024 07:47

@Peaceandquietandacuppa , I've already apologised twice for my thoughtless comment.

I look forward to you berating everyone on the thread who has called me entitled, greedy, unreasonable, a nightmare, a Karen, etc.

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hellsBells246 · 05/04/2024 07:50

@Ghosttofu99 , what's wrong with expecting good customer service?? If I bought a car and it broke down right away, I'd expect it to be repaired. If my Tesco delivery was wrong/late/didn't arrive, I'd expect Tesco to put it right.

Don't YOU expect good customer service?

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T1Dmama · 05/04/2024 07:54

I would speak to someone in person if you haven’t already.
yes I’d also be annoyed, holidays are a time for R&R and wouldn’t be impressed with being woken before I wanted to be

peakygold · 05/04/2024 08:14

hellsBells246 · 03/04/2024 05:21

Staying in a v posh hotel. Think 900 Swiss francs per night...

Just got woken up by a bloody alarm. Picked up phone and got a recorded message saying we had asked for a 6am alarm. We hadn't!! It woke us both and now we can't get back to sleep.

Rang reception, who were puzzled about the alarm but not v apologetic.

AIBU to think they could offer a small gesture to apologise?? Eg a free bottle of wine?! Or AIB greedy and mistakes happen?!

Stealth boast.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 05/04/2024 09:25

peakygold · 05/04/2024 08:14

Stealth boast.

🙄

PenguinLord · 05/04/2024 09:41

hellsBells246 · 03/04/2024 15:16

So much wrong here. I thought the Hilton dealt really well with the toothbrush delivered in error. That's good customer service.

I didn't ring myself on the phone, so your example of the man putting the fly in his own soup is totally irrelevant.

And you called me a Karen, which I hate. Shows a lack of critical thinking, let's say.

I actually hate the word Karen myself, I reserve using it for very special occasions. Such as this one.
And yes, it happened I woke up earlier on holidaus and have not demanded to speak to a manager expecting a case of wine over it.
I hope a DM article is coming, if not the hotel, Im sure they will pay a few pennies for the inconvenience.

ugal · 05/04/2024 09:49

Natsku · 05/04/2024 05:05

I dunno about the OP but I'd really struggle to find the hidden fucking positive of being woken up several hours early! I got woken up 2 hours early this morning by DS wetting his bed, can't find any hidden positive there, all I know is I'll be dead on my feet by lunch time and my afternoon will be wasted as I'll be unable to focus.

Fair enough, if that's how you feel. I just find that type of thinking makes me feel worse and becomes a bit of a self fulfilling prophecy. Obviously it's not always possible but I tend to try it as it makes me feel better than leaning into the shitness of a situation - there tends to be some silver lining I can find in most things. In a waking up early situation it might be that I'd had time to read my book in bed with a tea and get into the day slowly, or do an exercise video or do a job and feel I've achieved something ahead of the day. Maybe it's toxic positivity, but it does help me! And particularly on a holiday where the sole aim is fun and enjoyment I try to do everything I can to get into that mindset because if I can't I'm the only person that is losing out.

PS Sorry to hear that, sounds like a bit of a rotten start to the day and hope things get better.

Heyhoitsme · 05/04/2024 09:53

We were woken by a fire alarm in a lovely Irish hotel. We all had to traipse outside. They gave us a voucher for another night. We were almost glad of the inconvenience!

Willitwork999 · 05/04/2024 10:52

At 900 a night, yes i would expect a bottle of wine as an apology. At that price, i expect absolute perfection!

Allshallbewell2021 · 05/04/2024 10:59

This thread is so huge and passionate! Classic MN.

SillyOldBucket · 05/04/2024 11:31

I dont think it would even occur to me that I might be entitled to something. Mistakes happen and I'd probably just turn over and go back sleep.

Poopants1000 · 05/04/2024 11:53

You've spent alot of money for a luxurious night away where you have been rudely awoken accident or not!
Had you of accidently got your arrival date wrong would the hotel not greedily keep your deposit?!?! Come on people! You are paying for a service.

Natsku · 05/04/2024 13:08

ugal · 05/04/2024 09:49

Fair enough, if that's how you feel. I just find that type of thinking makes me feel worse and becomes a bit of a self fulfilling prophecy. Obviously it's not always possible but I tend to try it as it makes me feel better than leaning into the shitness of a situation - there tends to be some silver lining I can find in most things. In a waking up early situation it might be that I'd had time to read my book in bed with a tea and get into the day slowly, or do an exercise video or do a job and feel I've achieved something ahead of the day. Maybe it's toxic positivity, but it does help me! And particularly on a holiday where the sole aim is fun and enjoyment I try to do everything I can to get into that mindset because if I can't I'm the only person that is losing out.

PS Sorry to hear that, sounds like a bit of a rotten start to the day and hope things get better.

I can look for, and often find, the silver lining to many things but not lack of sleep. A life time of insomnia has taught me just how valuable sleep is, and how much it affects me when I don't get enough of it. I see where you're coming from though, just some things are just too bad for a silver lining.

And thanks, was a rotten start, just glad its the weekend tomorrow and I can get a lie in (hopefully!)

Teledeluxe · 05/04/2024 13:23

It’s hard to sleep at 5:21am, especially when being on mumsnet having a rant! Maybe some ambulance chasing claims company can help? ;-)

toxic44 · 05/04/2024 13:42

Grabby is a kind description.

BeenThere0 · 05/04/2024 13:56

@Allshallbewell2021 , I can see this filling up the 40 pages maximum allowed, without any consensus in sight..

BeenThere0 · 05/04/2024 14:02

I'll do the maths for everyone (well, everyone who needs it): 900 Swiss francs is about £790. (Any contribution I can make to calm this thread a bit..)

hellsBells246 · 05/04/2024 14:16

@PenguinLord - I actually hate the word Karen myself, I reserve using it for very special occasions. Such as this one.

That makes no sense at all. A bit like the rest of your posts.

And yes, it happened I woke up earlier on holidaus and have not demanded to speak to a manager expecting a case of wine over it.
I hope a DM article is coming, if not the hotel, Im sure they will pay a few pennies for the inconvenience.

You know I called you out on being a dick at the start of my thread when you were so rude?

My opinion hasn't changed.

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hellsBells246 · 05/04/2024 14:18

toxic44 · 05/04/2024 13:42

Grabby is a kind description.

What an appropriate user name!

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hellsBells246 · 05/04/2024 14:18

BeenThere0 · 05/04/2024 13:56

@Allshallbewell2021 , I can see this filling up the 40 pages maximum allowed, without any consensus in sight..

It's bonkers, isn't it?

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