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Posh hotel un-asked for alarm at 6 - compensation?!

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hellsBells246 · 03/04/2024 05:21

Staying in a v posh hotel. Think 900 Swiss francs per night...

Just got woken up by a bloody alarm. Picked up phone and got a recorded message saying we had asked for a 6am alarm. We hadn't!! It woke us both and now we can't get back to sleep.

Rang reception, who were puzzled about the alarm but not v apologetic.

AIBU to think they could offer a small gesture to apologise?? Eg a free bottle of wine?! Or AIB greedy and mistakes happen?!

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ALunchbox · 03/04/2024 11:24

I'm with you and will unapologetically complain about noise affecting my sleep. The one thing I expect from a hotel is a night's worth of sleep. From my experience, hotels accept they are in the wrong when they don't deliver.

BronwenTheBrave · 03/04/2024 11:25

Two bottles of free champagne, one night’s free stay, and some sort of guided tour would be my absolute minimum. Demand to see the manager.

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juniorspesh · 03/04/2024 11:25

Littlebelina · 03/04/2024 09:33

Bit harsh. Think this poster was on your side....

Thanks! Yes I didn't think I needed to spell out "just to let you know that is what a cheap hotel did when it was MY mistake and you are in a much more expensive hotel and it was their mistake" but perhaps I did.

zingally · 03/04/2024 11:27

Who cares? These things happen.

Not that long ago, on a cruise, the entire ship was woken at 2:30am by a voice speaking direct to our cabins. An hour late the captain came on to apologise for the disturbance!

juniorspesh · 03/04/2024 11:28

I do think it's un-chic to ask for something though. I'd just very politely tell reception "just to let them know in case it was affecting anyone else" and see what happened. Sometimes I think you can really tell who's worked in customer facing jobs and who hasn't.

CaterhamReconstituted · 03/04/2024 11:30

CustardySergeant · 03/04/2024 10:56

PenguinLord · Today 07:19 "They probably apologised but OP expected them growling on their knees"

That sounds quite terrifying tbh. 😲

I think they mean “grovelling” but I like growling better!

MorningSunshineSparkles · 03/04/2024 11:33

If you want compensation go to the USA, the rest of the world tend to roll their eyes at demands for compo when minimally inconvenienced.

RJnomore1 · 03/04/2024 11:34

Some people are really willing to accept anything on behalf of other people on the internet. I bet my bottom dollar they wouldn’t be anywhere near as complacent if they’d forked out for a decent hotel and had this happen to them.

it never ceases to amaze me. The peak one was the person booked into an expensive hotel who was told the electricity was going to be off over night where they stayed and apoarently they were massively entitled expecting to be able to access electricity in a hotel room they were paying a small fortune for.

🐂 💩

Bbbbbbbby · 03/04/2024 11:36

hellsBells246 · 03/04/2024 05:37

Oh wow. I wasn't expecting such vitriolic replies! Right, thanks. Clearly I was being too optimistic ... and greedy.

Cheers 👍🏼

Come on OP, don't be such a push over. This is Mumsnet and there are plenty of posters who get a cheap thrill out of posting over the top 'vitriolic' responses.

I don't think you are being unreasonable. It's not the biggest thing but I'd expect and want a decent apology and, maybe, some sort of compensation. Any decent hotel would want to do something to make it right with you.

CustardySergeant · 03/04/2024 11:39

CaterhamReconstituted · 03/04/2024 11:30

I think they mean “grovelling” but I like growling better!

Yes, I knew it was just a typo for grovelling really, but I am an extremely silly person and it made me smile. 🙂

lul1 · 03/04/2024 11:40

Not read the thred so I know it will have been said but picking up your phone to come on here would keep you awake.

Why are you wasting even a minute of your holiday on Mumsnet!!!

Rosscameasdoody · 03/04/2024 11:40

hellsBells246 · 03/04/2024 05:37

Oh wow. I wasn't expecting such vitriolic replies! Right, thanks. Clearly I was being too optimistic ... and greedy.

Cheers 👍🏼

Well, yes. It was a mistake on their part. Nobody died. Why would you need compensation ? I don’t think the responses were vitriolic and I think your optimism was misplaced if you thought MN would agree with your entitlement in expecting a grovelling token of their regret.

notacooldad · 03/04/2024 11:43

Some people are really willing to accept anything on behalf of other people on the internet. I bet my bottom dollar they wouldn’t be anywhere near as complacent if they’d forked out for a decent hotel and had this happen to them.
I've already said about the apartment I was on last weekend. No worries, stuff happens. We had a similar expierence in Kirkcudbright in a hotel there last summer.
Stuff happens, no one was injures. It's annoying but I wouldn't expect compo.

Thindog · 03/04/2024 11:44

I would be fuming if I’d shelled out that much to be woken so early, even Premier Inn’s guarantee a good night’s sleep. I have worked in hotels and you should be offered an apology by way of flowers or a bottle of wine.

pam290358 · 03/04/2024 11:45

zingally · 03/04/2024 11:27

Who cares? These things happen.

Not that long ago, on a cruise, the entire ship was woken at 2:30am by a voice speaking direct to our cabins. An hour late the captain came on to apologise for the disturbance!

Wow. A golden opportunity missed for the whole cruise ship to be substantially compensated for such a heinous error !!😀

babaisyou · 03/04/2024 11:45

hellsBells246 · 03/04/2024 09:41

Update (for anyone who's interested): spoke to the manager. She was baffled. You can set alarms from the room or from reception. Departing guests have all alarms wiped so this situation can't happen. No alarm had been set for our room. She's going to send an IT engineer up to our room.

She asked what we'd like. And we agreed on free drinks in the bar. She apologised, and will ensure that no alarm is set for tomorrow in our room.

Thank you for all the opinions. Some were quite tough to read, and some were just horrible (eg @PenguinLord ).

But this is a really special holiday, we have saved up for it, and I don't think it shows we're 'lacking class' if we point out the inconvenience. And yes, a gesture of compensation helps too! But the apology is the main thing.

Makes me think how well Premier Inn do with this kind of thing, and on a much lower budget!!

Right, off to explore now. I hope you all have a good day.

Sounds appropriate and I definitely don't think you were unreasonable to complain and expect some kind of small freebie to compensate.

If it was a budget hotel I'd say get over it, but you've paid a lot of money. It's outrageous to be woken up at 6am when you didn't ask for an alarm.

TheGreenManalishiWithTheTwoProngedCrown · 03/04/2024 11:45

Compensation culture really has taken over the world, hasn't it?

They made a mistake. It was annoying but nobody was harmed or suffered any loss. An apology is due; compensation isn't.

babaisyou · 03/04/2024 11:46

TheGreenManalishiWithTheTwoProngedCrown · 03/04/2024 11:45

Compensation culture really has taken over the world, hasn't it?

They made a mistake. It was annoying but nobody was harmed or suffered any loss. An apology is due; compensation isn't.

If I'd paid £700+ for a night in a hotel, you can bet I'd be complaining if I got woken up at 6am. That's not 'compensation culture' - that's simply expecting to get what you paid for.

wombat15 · 03/04/2024 11:51

I would be really annoyed. Mistakes happen but if it ruins your sleep when you have paid for a room in an expensive hotel I would expect them to be at least very apologetic. I would complain as they need to make sure it doesn't happen again.

DontBeAMeany · 03/04/2024 11:52

To all of you who think the OP is an awful person for thinking she might have been given a decent apology and maybe a little something to say sorry what would you do If you were running a hotel and this happened to one of your customers? I'd be glad the OP had made me aware of the issue and would want to do something to make sure the OP was happy.

I think people are happy to overlook mistakes and inconveniences if they are handled well.

wombat15 · 03/04/2024 11:54

babaisyou · 03/04/2024 11:46

If I'd paid £700+ for a night in a hotel, you can bet I'd be complaining if I got woken up at 6am. That's not 'compensation culture' - that's simply expecting to get what you paid for.

I agree. Being woken by a telephone ringing if you haven't asked for it can be stressful for some people and if it is at 6 a.m. very difficult to get back to sleep.

VanGoghsDog · 03/04/2024 11:55

Unplug the phone tonight.

wombat15 · 03/04/2024 11:57

TheGreenManalishiWithTheTwoProngedCrown · 03/04/2024 11:45

Compensation culture really has taken over the world, hasn't it?

They made a mistake. It was annoying but nobody was harmed or suffered any loss. An apology is due; compensation isn't.

Their mistake meant OP didn't get what she paid for which was a good nights sleep.

CaterhamReconstituted · 03/04/2024 11:59

I’m surprised by the strength of people’s reactions. It is fairly reasonable to expect not to be woken up when you haven’t asked to be, and that a top hotel should acknowledge a mistake and perhaps offer something to the person who has been inconvenienced.

It’s not remotely the same as someone fabricating an incident like deliberately dropping a fly in their food so they can then demand compensation.

I think “Karen”-hunting has become a bit of a sport.