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My God this story about the class photograph is appalling!

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Needsomebloodyperspective · 29/03/2024 07:19

Link here.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ce5epgp2zdno

Parents given the option to have disabled children removed from their photograph.

Who on Gods green earth thought that was a good idea?!

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vanillawaffle · 29/03/2024 08:53

saraclara · 29/03/2024 08:40

The problem with that is that many parents won't buy the photo if it's blurry. And tempest is in the business of selling photos.
I think that element is fair enough. I've known tempest take ages and ages to try to get the single photo that doesn't have one of the kids looking the wrong way/moving/scowling. The result has to be sellable at the end.

Well I think that parents who won't buy a photo because one child is a little blurry should look at themselves and think why that child is blurry and deal with it.

vanillawaffle · 29/03/2024 08:54

OolongTeaDrinker · 29/03/2024 08:43

I said this on the other thread, but not all SEN kids are part of the mainstream class - one my goddaughters is in a SEN hub attached to a mainstream school and she has only one or two classes per week in mainstream, the rest of the time she is taught in the hub. I remember one year her mum had two school pics: one of her and her cohort from the hub and one with the whole year group - so I assume the mainstream year group also had a photo without the kids from the hub. So there were likely three photos available 1) hub kids 2) mainstream class and 3) whole year group.

So it was probably something along those lines rather than for more sinister reasons - as what possible motivation would the photographer have for doing that otherwise, and how would he/she even know who were the kids with complex needs, and how would they have been separated from the other kids without any teachers noticing?

Edited

They were in a wheelchair.. its quite obvious

LuluBlakey1 · 29/03/2024 08:55

cerisepanther73 · 29/03/2024 07:47

@Needsomebloodyperspective

All schools teachers are under tremendously stress to fulfil expections criteria ect of Ofstead agency,

Cause of that, having a child having meltdowns or disrupting the classrooms or creating 🤔 any drama's etc,
on ofstead day,
means attention and energy and time is diverted elsewhere,
and unfortunately doesn't reflect well on the school on that particular day..

There was yesterday a mumsnet post about often teachers having to deal with extremely difficult behaviours to manage such as pupils even being violent and how often teachers are attacked ect

And....? Are you suggesting removing children who might exhibit challenging behaviour from a school is reasonable in an Ofsted inspection?
It absolutely is not- apart from being illegal and against Ofsted rules.

SevenSeasOfRhye · 29/03/2024 08:57

It reminded me of the film 'Wonder' where the awful parents of the class bully airbrush the boy with a facial condition out of the class photo - which at the time I saw as a deliberately over-the-top plot device to emphasise that the bullying behaviour had emanated from the parents. I didn't think it was something that would happen in real life. Awful.

LuluBlakey1 · 29/03/2024 08:57

This company have done something that discriminates against a group of children. That's it.

Isthisexpected · 29/03/2024 08:58

cerisepanther73 · 29/03/2024 07:47

@Needsomebloodyperspective

All schools teachers are under tremendously stress to fulfil expections criteria ect of Ofstead agency,

Cause of that, having a child having meltdowns or disrupting the classrooms or creating 🤔 any drama's etc,
on ofstead day,
means attention and energy and time is diverted elsewhere,
and unfortunately doesn't reflect well on the school on that particular day..

There was yesterday a mumsnet post about often teachers having to deal with extremely difficult behaviours to manage such as pupils even being violent and how often teachers are attacked ect

But that's the whole point. Ofsted can see how a school respond to this child's needs, and the others in the class, in real time.

LuluBlakey1 · 29/03/2024 09:00

Justrolledmyeyesoutloud · 29/03/2024 08:22

In my school, we have got an autistic child and we said to her parents if she didn't want to come in, or wanted to leave at any time of the day Otsted came, we would authorise it. We knew she wouldn't cope with the change of schedule and it would really upset her so gave them the option. She used to be violent and kick off then get really upset so wanted to give them the option. But it wasn't because we didn't want her so a bit different.

You are being disingenuous to suggest this was for the child's benefit. It's shameful.

saraclara · 29/03/2024 09:00

vanillawaffle · 29/03/2024 08:53

Well I think that parents who won't buy a photo because one child is a little blurry should look at themselves and think why that child is blurry and deal with it.

We may well agree on that, but the reality is that they won't, any more than they'd frame a picture that they took that was blurry.

These photos are stupidly expensive, so people wasn't them to be at least in focus. I don't think that's entirely unreasonable.

x2boys · 29/03/2024 09:01

IwishIdidntlikesugar · 29/03/2024 07:46

I assumed it was because some of the children weren’t able to sit still for the photo so it would have had blurry images of movement or whatever.

A good photographer should be able to work around that ,my son has severe autism and learning disabilities his special school send me photos of him every day they are not photographers, they are always of him smiling and laughing and completely natural.

saraclara · 29/03/2024 09:02

LuluBlakey1 · 29/03/2024 09:00

You are being disingenuous to suggest this was for the child's benefit. It's shameful.

Yep.

BritishBeatleMania · 29/03/2024 09:04

I’ve never liked tempest and their cornering of the school photo market. Somehow this doesn’t surprise me. They don’t care about the kids and their memories about school, it’s just about extorting money from parents, as this has shown.

The fact that they were comfortable enough to send that email and demonstrate to all the parents in that school that they view children with visible additional needs as deletion worthy is just horrible.

WillimNot · 29/03/2024 09:04

As the parent of two DCs with additional needs, I'm obviously saddened and disgusted. It smacks of a feeling that these children are the rogue elements, or the nasty kids.

In our experience, it's quite the opposite and my DS has faced abuse from peers for his disabilities. Some of the abusive things he's been called- especially during covid- could only come from parents with a disgustingly backward attitude towards SEN.

Am I surprised by this company doing this? No, sadly not. We like to think we live in a far more inclusive society but there's still a section who harbour the same outdated views. This just highlights it.

Also, I would agree with the mum who now wanders who, if any, bought the copy that erased her DD before the link was removed. You'd always wander wouldn't you?

icebearforpresident · 29/03/2024 09:05

There was an interview with the mother of one of the children removed from the photo on the Scottish news last night. The girl was a part of the full class, it wasn’t a composite class where you had the option of P1a, P1b or both together. They photoshopped her daughter out and possibly other children as well. The mother was devastated and watching her interview was incredibly moving. She was also very clear that the school had no idea it had happened. Tempest have had their contract with that school cancelled and I hope others follow suit.

I would be interested to hear how many parents selected the edited photo.

saraclara · 29/03/2024 09:06

x2boys · 29/03/2024 09:01

A good photographer should be able to work around that ,my son has severe autism and learning disabilities his special school send me photos of him every day they are not photographers, they are always of him smiling and laughing and completely natural.

I got great photos in my class of my complex pupils. But individually or in tiny groups in their normal activities.

We entirely gave up on tempest style photos though. It's an entirely different kettle of fish getting any number of our children sitting still on benches set up on the way the photographer wanted, in the hall! It's an entirely UNnatural situation, and the kids just couldn't deal with it. We had staff trying to position children, then trying to dash out of the picture in time. It was madness, and not worth upsetting the children over.

x2boys · 29/03/2024 09:07

Justrolledmyeyesoutloud · 29/03/2024 08:22

In my school, we have got an autistic child and we said to her parents if she didn't want to come in, or wanted to leave at any time of the day Otsted came, we would authorise it. We knew she wouldn't cope with the change of schedule and it would really upset her so gave them the option. She used to be violent and kick off then get really upset so wanted to give them the option. But it wasn't because we didn't want her so a bit different.

You didn't do it in the interests of the child did you ?
You did it so ofsted wouldn't see any struggles school might have with the child's behaviour 🙄

vanillawaffle · 29/03/2024 09:09

saraclara · 29/03/2024 09:00

We may well agree on that, but the reality is that they won't, any more than they'd frame a picture that they took that was blurry.

These photos are stupidly expensive, so people wasn't them to be at least in focus. I don't think that's entirely unreasonable.

I think I get where you're coming from.

Scottishskifun · 29/03/2024 09:10

saraclara · 29/03/2024 09:00

We may well agree on that, but the reality is that they won't, any more than they'd frame a picture that they took that was blurry.

These photos are stupidly expensive, so people wasn't them to be at least in focus. I don't think that's entirely unreasonable.

It wasn't a case of 1 child being blurry the link was sent with a no complex needs option. Also in this day and age with technology blurred elements can be edited.

saraclara · 29/03/2024 09:11

Scottishskifun · 29/03/2024 09:10

It wasn't a case of 1 child being blurry the link was sent with a no complex needs option. Also in this day and age with technology blurred elements can be edited.

I know. My post was in response to a hypothetical situation.

vanillawaffle · 29/03/2024 09:11

icebearforpresident · 29/03/2024 09:05

There was an interview with the mother of one of the children removed from the photo on the Scottish news last night. The girl was a part of the full class, it wasn’t a composite class where you had the option of P1a, P1b or both together. They photoshopped her daughter out and possibly other children as well. The mother was devastated and watching her interview was incredibly moving. She was also very clear that the school had no idea it had happened. Tempest have had their contract with that school cancelled and I hope others follow suit.

I would be interested to hear how many parents selected the edited photo.

What as in it was one photo and they actually removed them digitally from the photo? This is ridiculous. This is what happens when people get obsessed with airbrushing and filters. First they came for the spots and stray hairs, now they are removing WHOLE people.

IncessantNameChanger · 29/03/2024 09:12

TomeTome · 29/03/2024 08:33

I can’t imagine it’s that surprising for those of us with disabled children. It’s absolutely brutal out there. Be vocal about wanting disabled children included because the ones who don’t are talking for you.

Well said. So much exceptance at face value but but behind closed doors there's very little if any tolerance of SEN children. These kids grow up so does the tolerance just come when they are no longer in your kids classes but in society? Bollocks does it.

Bluefell · 29/03/2024 09:12

Part of me keeps thinking this must have been blown out of proportion somehow and there must be a misunderstanding that hasn’t been reported. I’ve been accused of disability discrimination before, and I was horrified because I hadn’t even been informed the child was disabled. Honestly, I can’t think of what the misunderstanding could be though?

Regardless, Tempest will say it was the actions of this one photographer and not their company policy, and they will sack him and move on.

cerisepanther73 · 29/03/2024 09:14

@vanillawaffle

It would not look to a proffessional expected standard of criteria if their was any blurriness of school photographs
and someone or others would sooner or later complain about that school group photo graph standard not being as good as it used to be,

would obviously reflect look below expected standards,
for that particular proffessional photography company hired to reflect whichever schools has chosen this photographer...

icebearforpresident · 29/03/2024 09:14

vanillawaffle · 29/03/2024 09:11

What as in it was one photo and they actually removed them digitally from the photo? This is ridiculous. This is what happens when people get obsessed with airbrushing and filters. First they came for the spots and stray hairs, now they are removing WHOLE people.

When you clicked the link to order the photos there were two options - one with all the kids and one with the ‘complex needs’ (which is I think how it was put) kids removed

Justrolledmyeyesoutloud · 29/03/2024 09:15

saraclara · 29/03/2024 09:02

Yep.

Sorry but we know this child really well and she was on a reduced timetable already due to finding school overwhelming. We know her triggers and her care plan is to avoid them where possible for her own safety and wellbeing.
But you carry on telling me l am wrong if it makes you feel better.
We accommodate her needs 100% of the time, to the detriment of the other children sometimes as it goes, so flame me all you want but her mum and dad absolutely love our school as does she.