Relationship

[ForChicOpalBeaker]

I'm 35 and still single I dated men but haven't been right ones
Wonder if I will find a nice looking guy any advice????

What are your essential criteria for men?

Good personality and nice looking someone who treat you well

What would you go for???? 🤔

My type have to have brown or blonde hair and is funny also nice looking if you know anyone let me know lol 😂

You seem very focussed on “nice looking” - maybe concentrate on characteristics, values and life stage (ie do you want children soon etc)

I do got to meet right person and settle down

Thankyou that a good point 😊

My criteria were clever, well educated, hard working and kind. He also had to take his fair share of responsibility so I wasn't in charge of everything. Looks fade but a maths degree is for ever!

A lot of people generally marry for looks (they will lie and tell you they don't, but a hell of a lot do).

It takes a lot to overcome 6 million years of genetic programming. Which unfortunately did not program in values like being tidy around the house.

Whereas it is more personality and things like work ethic, behaviour and life outlook that keeps a relationship together.

How are you searching for these men? Online?

I think your 30s is just the hardest time to be dating. Men will be very aware that if you want children then things will need to move quickly so they go for women in their late 20s instead to give themselves breathing space.

You need to be clear about what you're looking for. As well as attraction and compatible personalities, I wanted

• Looking for marriage and children within a couple of years.
• reasonable career
• no children

I got there after a lot of dates. I kissed some frogs 🐸 😘 😏