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Can we talk about my office drama

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blCkmagic · 10/03/2024 10:53

I used to work with a man - we got along and then he left. Fast forward 3 years and we have both been promoted into “senior” roles in our respective companies and in a twist, now work at the same office building again.

We arranged a date - nothing has happened yet just flirty conversation.

He went out for drinks with his colleagues this week and ended up punching 2 of them - I wasn’t there, don’t know exactly what happened. He injured a female colleague when one of the males fell into her & was mouthing off at the bouncer and refusing to back down. I’d be surprised if he doesn’t get sacked.

He wants emotional support from me. He is super apologetic. Drink was involved. I have the ick.

aibu to want to cancel the date and distance myself from him? How do I approach this? He’s never struck me as violent before this, you never know how someone might react.

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RockyRogue1001 · 10/03/2024 13:40

Wowser!

You've definitely done the right thing

Bumblebeeinatree · 10/03/2024 13:49

Did he explain what happened? Even mild mannered people can be taunted into reacting. I would want to know before deciding what to do in future, although I would be pretty wary.

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