Dating site for mid 40s

[Vibing]

I've been out of the dating game for a while.
What's the best site to use for looking for serious relationship

Some are expensive. Don't want to waste mo ey on eharmony or elitesingles if they're rubbish or there's a better one

Any recommendations?

I met dh on match.com

I quite liked it and most of the people
I talked to seemed to be genuine and wanted a relationship.

I was only on it for a few days though - went for a date with him and that was it!

That's a success story....
do you mind me asking how old you were? Im feeling self conscious about atarting dating on the tipping point past mid 40

I'm in 40s and use Bumble and Tinder. Tinder I'd say is better for FB/FWB, Bumble is mixed but I use it mainly looking for a relationship. I've come across 1 possible scammer in Tinder (after 3 messages so swiftly unmatched), but it does take a lot of swiping left to find some decent men (and then only a portion of them is able to hold a conversation 😂) I've used Hinge but I don't find it good for my location.