Big glutes x small glutes

[greytday]

That is going to be a weird one, stay with me:

So… men with big glutes x women with small glutes…
Are they the opposite sides of the same coin?

Meaning - they are both considered less desirable by society beauty standards?

OTOH - men with small glutes x women with big glutes - considered ideal / desirable.

BTW -

For women - by big I mean - nicely shaped, rounded and proprtional instead flat, shapeless - I’m not talking about BBL style.

For men - by big I mean - sticking out and looking exagerated in relation to the body - through not fault of their own, just nature - difficult to fit in clothes - as opposed to just normal and balanced with the other body parts.

Does anyone know what I mean?

And yes, I know: CoL, war and all that and this is shallow - I’m not judging anyone here, people should not be judged by their body at all and mine is far from perfect of course.

Just musing for personal reasons

Have you seen footballers' glutes? And footballers don't have a problem being desired.

Actually I never paid attention to footballer’s glutes but I suspect there is more going on for them than glutes

I’m thinking about the average person with average clothes living average lives

Are their glutes exagerated in size or just nice and muscular?

They're desired for their money more than their looks, let's be real.