This gets dark quickly, sorry.
I'm old, the script in my family is that I was a dreadful teenager. I lied, was foul, was horrible to everyone (especially my mum) for years, know-it-all etc. I was first part of it, then believed it for years.
I've since realised that my brother was violently abusive, my parents did nothing. They used to control me and make everything difficult. I didn't just have to do chores, I had to do them smiling to make my mother happy. She's quite difficult and cries to get my dad to take her 'side' in everything.
And yes, there was a lot they could have done. Been more involved in the good things I was doing. I was deeply committed to charities and fundraising. I volunteered, I was a great kid. They didn't care about any of it and only what they thought was 'good' which was a million miles from what I did. So I try with DD. She likes reptiles; I know more about reptiles than any woman should. She complains about chores; I say, "it's crap, just get through it but feel free to be annoyed, I am". And she's an only child.
Sorry, I know this is light-hearted.