Can anyone else help me find a thread from earlier this year?

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I don't think it was in chat and has thus been deleted but it was about other MNers who found that they are never alone and that they are MUCH more productive when their DPs go OUT and that they find it really annoying having them in the house.
TIA

This one? Unproductive when in company
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/4893661-unproductive-when-in-company

In a state of inertia when DH around www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/4932835-in-a-state-of-inertia-when-dh-around