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Thoughts please re boyfriends being here

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GremlinDolphin4 · 29/02/2024 19:41

Hi my two adult dds are currently living with me and we all get on well. One of them has recently got a boyfriend (very nice chap) and because they both work different shifts he is often here in the week which doesn’t bother me but I think my other dd finds it a bit of an intrusion as she had a stressful job and needs to chill when she comes home. Any thoughts on what’s acceptable in this situation? I think I just like having people here as they all will be gone again soon!

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TooManyCheesecakeCalories · 29/02/2024 19:52

How much is ‘often here’ though?
3/4 nights is hugely different to 5/6/7 nights. It’s awful not being able to relax in your own home because someone else is there, maybe have a limit to how often so there is a compromise? That way they each have a little their own way.

SheepAndSword · 29/02/2024 20:54

What's boyfriend's living situation? Tbh I would have thought 2 nights per week ok but not more

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 29/02/2024 22:40

It can get very wearing very quickly. Before you know it they have practically moved in rent free. I lived to regret it. Be careful.

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