My friend is having trouble getting an aupair due to the lack of visas for the EU. She is considering offering the “job” to a girl from an EU country on the condition that she stays here for 5 months as a tourist. My friend is a single mother and she is desperate to sort out her childcare.
This girl is from my home country and my friend has asked me to take part in a Zoom call with her so as to explain in our language what the conditions are to avoid any misunderstanding.
I have said that I can’t do it as in my view what she is planning is not legal.
Have I overreacted? She went very quiet and has been avoiding me since.