Reco for family friendly campsite SE England

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DH has thrown dozens of options at me for our first big family camping trip and so now I have a wish list which I can't find a campsite to deliver against.

Help me out please: ideally Hampshire incl. New Forest or Sussex, but open to more.

• proper toilets
• hot showers
• grass tent pitches
• elec hook up (it might be chilly, I'm a wimp, want to take a heater just in case)
• play area
• walkable to a pub
• able to have a camp fire (ideally)

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Another hopeful bump.

Sorry, this is not going to tick all your boxes - but it is a fabulous place https://wowo.co.uk/ (it's just no electricity)

Thanks @Cabeza I had seen that but was a bit worried I'd have to be clocked watching for activities and it might be a bit too much organised fun? Which isn't always a bad thing, but I wasn't sure about plunging straight in. If you've been, what were the pros and cons?

Oh I hate camping but friends have been going every year since kids were wee (now aged 15). They don't do organised fun, kids paddle in streams, follow ducks, and climb trees.