This is an interesting point. All of the men and most of the women I know either have already or would like to sleep with me. So to the OP’s question, yes. I know a lot of people are attracted to me. I don’t get coy about it: I work out a lot and have a great body, I don’t put all that fucking effort in just for the good of my health.
Men are pretty easy. You just have to be fairly attractive to get their interest. And I’m married to a man. But I can still pick up women who would usually think of themselves as straight in bars and nightclubs with ease. There’s (apparently) something incredibly charming about me, which I haven’t ever quite been able to work out, but which women particularly are attracted to.
Actually, giving it some thought, I can guess more or less exactly what it is: when I meet a woman who I think is interesting, beautiful, witty, talented, sexy and clever, I really want to get to know her better and thus I show her interest on that level. A lot of women aren’t used to anyone showing them genuine interest and appreciation, rather than just trying to get into their pants. When I get a woman’s phone number, I message her the next afternoon, I arrange a date, I sort the logistics, I keep in touch, I remind her how much I’m looking forward to it. We at least go the theatre and for dinner before we talk about sex. Too many women I guess are used to being messed around by men who don’t want to do any of that.