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Help! Should I reconsider my friends over this

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Lilllypad11 · 12/02/2024 21:02

We all went out on Friday. I’m closer to Emma than I am to jenny. But we all stayed out for a while. Anyway, I ended up having a big old cry about being cheated on after having way to much to drink and suddenly I just start telling my life story. Anyway, I also stupidly said I don’t like my new manager. We were all similarly drunk but I reckon these guys remember my nonsense.

they carried on going out, I had to tap out because I had too much and after crying couldn’t be bothered to go out.

Bur what annoyed me was Emma knew I was pretty upset and not once did she think to text me on the day after to say did you get in safe or are you okay from last night or anyyyyything. Today I walk into work and she said “just before you came in manager said “have you heard off tess(me) and I said “no not a word” “but I saw you walking in and shouted at her she’s alive! ”

Now as far as I’m concerned, I was a bit annoyed. I just said hah yeah. And sat in my usual place. I just had nothing to say. She later tapped me on the shoulder and said “you okay?” I said “yeah I’m fine. Just got my period”

The bit that frustrated me is she checked in on our other friend and was vocal about texting her the next morning. But totally disregarded messaging me or asking if I was okay.

I did think about apologising to her. But I don’t feel like it.

OP posts:
Hermittrismegistus · 12/02/2024 21:08

Why have you posted this again?

etmoiandme · 12/02/2024 21:15

J'ai une sensation de déjà vu

2024WasNotInFactMyYear · 12/02/2024 23:30

Your post is very difficult to follow OP. I’d pause communications with them for a week or two, then reassess after you’ve had time to recalibrate.

Aecor · 12/02/2024 23:35

Didn’t you post something similar last night, only then you were embarrassed you’d told colleagues you’d been cheated on?

Are they colleagues or friends?

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