Whats the most t bitchiest comment you have ever heard?

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At work, local gov environment - we sat nattering on our desks and a colleague walked in from a client visit and wished one of my work-mates, "Congrats on your engagement

That was fine until my co-worker stuck out her hand to show of her diamond ring set in white gold I think it was.

The workmate who walked in said, "is that real." Honestly, she was being serious and had not noted what she had done by her insensitive comments

Have you got something to share that was insensitive?

Had an emergency crash c-section in which
DC and I both nearly died. I went out for lunch with two colleague friends to introduce them to the baby. One said "I knew you'd create some sort of drama" and another said "too posh to push hey? Maybe you can be a proper mum to the next one". Both knew exactly why the section happened and both knew that we'd had IVF following a lengthy infertility battle and DC was likely to be the only baby we'd have. I'd considered them both friends, but I dropped them after that. I sobbed and sobbed when I got home.

MIL standard ‘what made you buy/wear/cook/hair colour/ anything’ with a look of horror. Constantly

To me this week ... I had an appointment with a physio for severe PGP. Physio blamed my condition on being "so inactive". My GP had recommended that I reduce the amount of walking I do as I was averaging about 8,000 steps a day and already in severe pain at 25 weeks. I had scaled back my exercise and was no longer carrying heavy loads but certainly not inactive! I can't be anyway, as I have a very active 2 year old at home!

The physio asked if there was anything worrying from my 28 week hospital appointment. I mentioned that I was a bit concerned as the baby's measuring just below the 90th centile. For context I'm only 5'1'' and under 50kg when I got pregnant. She then looked me up and down and said, "Well, your excess weight gain won't be helping" 😮

I've only gained 5kg so far and am literally all bump. Was so shocked I didn't say anything in the moment but afterwards was raging!

Oh I need to hear the follow up to this!!! What happened from that point forward

I had my first son by c section. He was breech and completely stuck in my pelvis from 35 weeks so had elective section at 37 weeks. NCT group leader phoned me a couple if weeks later and said " Oh dear, never mind you can do it properly next time".
Woman at the toddler group " Well it's okay for c section people. You get a tummy tuck at the same time". I was skinny because I'd had hyperemesis throughout the 9 months and only weighed 7 stone the day after he was born.

Should have said 'sorry, no space for you. We are too fat'

Not really a bitchy comment

None of these are shocking

Fat comments from elderly relatives are standard

The op comment is not insensitive making a joke about someone's mum not realising they were dead is insensitive

Saying a diamond is big is not insensitive

A 'friend' of mine said " you're quite stylish for a big girl". She's now an ex friend

Sharing our clothing sizes as a 17 year old. I had size 8 best friends and I was a size 14, in my head none of us noticed tbh. But one bitch who wasn't my friend asked if I was ashamed. In that single moment I was. It still remember it at 38 but I'm not bothered by it coz I'm still a 14/16. She was an ugly cunt any way.

A woman I used to work with years ago was talking about another woman she knew and said "she looks like she has Down's syndrome".

I really wish I'd been brave enough to interrupt and show her a picture of my little cousin, who has Down's syndrome.

My husband was due to go on a works do , a weekend retreat with a colleague who , and I kid you not was a six foot blonde ex lingerie model , also Russian . I was feeling fat and frumpy and said as much to a friend ( using the term loosely) and that I'm feeling a little jealous and anxious about my husbands work colleague.
" Oh don't give it a second thought"she said " it's not like HE is going to get ANYONE GOOD-LOOKING IS IT " - one sentence put us both down , genius

Good lord!

DH came into work to meet me a few years ago, a manager saw him and said "He's your husband? He's YOUR husband?"

DH is the better looking of the two of us, but still, that stung.

This happened to me too after my first DC. I was gutted 😭

My mum once said about my sister to me " xxx is the pretty one, but everyone likes you".. Two with one stone ..

Oh that's truly awful, so sorry for you, I hope you got support elsewhere 💐

Visiting an elderly Aunt of my new dh a few weeks after our wedding. She'd been invited but had gone into hospital at the last minute so couldn't attend. I'd never met her before but took her expensive flowers and the wedding photos, hoping to cheer her up. She looked at the photos and insulted all my family, then told me "you're fat like your dad". I told her my dad was a wonderful man and I was proud to take after him but inside I was devastated. Needless to say we didn't visit her again.

@Pudmyboy not really. I'm pretty sure I've got PTSD but more from what my sister did to me which was a million times worse.

I once bought a colleague a bottle of wine to thank her for doing me a favour. She left on a side in the staff break room for 6 months gathering dust. Still don’t know why she didn’t just give it away if she didn’t want it.

Once a group of us were talking about what we’d change if we could change one thing about our physical appearance. I said something and a colleague said “Oh really, that’s not what I thought you’d say.” Gobsmacked!

My lovely sil (but from a different culture) sat on the end of the bed FAR too early in the morning .. squeezed my 41week pregnant leg and declared:

You are so very very fat ..

She didn't speak English so I got away with saying 'and I want to stab you through the heart until you are dead '

but actually said 'thank you' in her language because I know that 'fat' is not degrading in her culture it means healthy and 'wealthy '

Upon hearing about my miscarriage person said happily ‘least you know you can get pregnant’

I would've said "Yeah, my birthday suit... best thing about it, maximum result, minimum effort."

‘you look well’ makes me want to go insane

My daughter had been invited to a swimming pool party at a classmate's house, out in the sticks. When I asked queen bee mum what time 'we' should get there (as in me dropping her off) she hissed "I wasn't inviting YOU".
I wish I had said something like "well, how the hell else is she supposed to get there, you stuck up bitch?"