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Cultural differences Scotland and England

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CauleyMacGlochlin · 11/02/2024 15:14

So surprised to see on a recent thread that in England secondary school pupils are often not allowed out of school for lunch until 6th form, which Google tells me means 16-18. I'm gobsmacked. I've never heard of anything like this in Scotland and I've lived all over the country (grew up in Glasgow and moved around in adulthood)

I also recently discovered that English school pupils can't leave education at 16. They have to stay in education til 18 unless they have an apprenticeship.

Got me thinking about cultural differences between the countries that I've maybe been oblivious all this time. Any others?

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SummerDays2020 · 13/02/2024 07:06

WitchWithoutChips · 12/02/2024 15:07

Liverpool has historically had issues with sectarianism, although the links to the football clubs were largely incidental. There is almost never any trouble nowadays but there is a big Orange parade through the city every year.

I didn't know that, thank you.

SummerDays2020 · 13/02/2024 07:07

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/02/2024 15:27

The lack of decent break times to run around and play football contribute to poor behaviour in the classroom though.

For some, I guess. Most secondary school kids don't actually run around though.

Many of them play sports at lunchtime.

SummerDays2020 · 13/02/2024 07:13

Jellycatspyjamas · 12/02/2024 16:09

If a husband’s parent dies then the wife’s parents will go to the funeral as you’re all linked by marriage and you’re family.

I think funerals are different here (in Scotland) anyway in that it’s not unusual for people to attend who didn’t know the deceased but wanted to support the family and pay their respects. My dad would go to funerals of my DHs extended family to represent the link in marriage, I’ve been to the funerals of close colleagues family members to support my colleague and represent the employers support etc.

I didn’t realise how unusual that was until a friends brother died unexpectedly. We had a mixed friendship group, the Scottish friends all planned to attend the funeral, our Welsh and English friends questioned why we’d go to the funeral of someone we didn’t know.

I don't know how usual it is but I have been to a funeral to support a close friend even though I didn't know the deceased. Perhaps it isn't that common to do that here, I don't know. I didn't see it as a 'duty' I had to do, I just did it because I wanted to.

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RampantIvy · 13/02/2024 07:16

Some of us from work went to a funeral to support a lovely work colleague when she lost her mum suddenly. However, this was local.

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 13/02/2024 07:52

GrandTheftWalrus · 12/02/2024 22:20

Cooncil telly - on the normal channels not sky etc. My dad still asks if the fitba is on cooncil telly.

We call it gas telly

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 13/02/2024 08:10

What is ‘plain bread’?

SirChenjins · 13/02/2024 08:22

A type of bread - tall, dense, delicious

Cultural differences Scotland and England
Kelly51 · 13/02/2024 08:41

@donteatthedaisies0
The chunks of tatties are the prize!!
Many a child has lived in hope of a bit of potato in their soup!

Trez1510 · 13/02/2024 10:07

I'm combining two Scottish habits today - soup I made yesterday with slices of plain bread to dunk. You can keep your crusty bread for soup, you Philistines, it's plain bread all the way in this house! The density of the bread allows it to absorb more of the liquor and transforms bread into something divine .. angels dancing on your tongue would be a similar experience I imagine! 😛

Trez1510 · 13/02/2024 10:12

Btw, anyone looking for plain bread may be able to get Irwin's Irish batch bread in Asda - it's expensive because it's a small (half) loaf but definitely worth it if you're missing plain bread!

cordeliachaseatemyhandbag · 13/02/2024 10:39

24% of Scottish homes are social rented compared to 10% in England.

The divide used to be much wider.

Scottish councils also put a much greater emphasis on having a local connection to a locality/ needing to be close by to provide or receive care from a relative than English councils /HAs.

So Scots tended to be rehoused very close to their parents/ rest of their extended family than in England.

This has lots of long term knock on effects- breastfeeding rates, childcare choices, prevalence of CSA in some areas.

There is more of a 'know your place' culture in Scotland where people are scolded for trying to make the best of themselves.

In England there's more of a culture to move away eg to uni to make a better life for yourself.

Puffalicious · 13/02/2024 10:54

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 18:50

My best friend’s dog was called Toby in the eighties, does that count?

I remember bringing home a boy called Julian after I went to university in England, my parents were highly amused to meet one in the flesh.

🤣🤣🤣 My mam was the same when I knew a Celeste at uni! 🤣🤣🤣

Puffalicious · 13/02/2024 10:59

Lifebeganat50 · 12/02/2024 19:34

Eh, eh ken 😂

I'm happy to report that oor weans in secondary English classes study Scots language & are encouraged to write in in (creative writing). Some love it & do far better than when writing in English, others really don't like it & revert back to writing in English.

We've had brilliant sessions with the Glaswegian writer Chris McQueer- who is phenomenal- which the kids have loved. It's all about celebrating who they are & writing about what they know. 👏

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 13/02/2024 11:06

There is more of a 'know your place' culture in Scotland where people are scolded for trying to make the best of themselves.

Is there, aye?

Puffalicious · 13/02/2024 11:09

pitterypattery00 · 12/02/2024 23:48

@Ultravox - so true about the weather differences. Living in Scotland I could never understand who bought the light weight winter coats etc in the shops. Moved to SW and the winters are so much milder - after a few winters here I got rid of several of my warmest clothes as I just didn't need that many. Also people think it's wet here. I feel like saying 'pal, try living in Glasgow'!

Aye, but no always! View right this minute from my camper can window -Ayrshire an hour from Glasgow. Glorious.

Cultural differences Scotland and England
Puffalicious · 13/02/2024 11:12

Camper van! Although camper can was quite accurate last night when it felt like a tin can on wheels, so snuggling into DS was necessary (he's a wee, roast tottie all the time!😅).

Ormally · 13/02/2024 11:17

This is all v interesting!
My parents lived in Glasgow for some time when young (pre-me) and use 'outwith', 'fair jiggered', 'housecoat' and so on - I thought this wasn't an English/Scots language divide but (as well as probably quite of a time), it seems to be.
They much preferred 'Guidance' as the name for what in England got called PHSE, they thought that the acronym showed everything that was wrong with that concept. Don't know if that's still true though.

Itslegitimatesalvage · 13/02/2024 11:31

cordeliachaseatemyhandbag · 13/02/2024 10:39

24% of Scottish homes are social rented compared to 10% in England.

The divide used to be much wider.

Scottish councils also put a much greater emphasis on having a local connection to a locality/ needing to be close by to provide or receive care from a relative than English councils /HAs.

So Scots tended to be rehoused very close to their parents/ rest of their extended family than in England.

This has lots of long term knock on effects- breastfeeding rates, childcare choices, prevalence of CSA in some areas.

There is more of a 'know your place' culture in Scotland where people are scolded for trying to make the best of themselves.

In England there's more of a culture to move away eg to uni to make a better life for yourself.

That’s not at all my experience of Scotland. I think this is again, a class divide rather than anything else. I’m guessing there is a class of people who do all have a “know your place” attitude and just have kids on an estate and then they get a house nearby and continue it but I’ve never experience anything like that. My social circles have always been driven. Only a few people from my year at school didn’t go to uni, hardly any had kids outside of marriage. They were the odd ones out; the ones who didn’t make a great life for themselves.

SummerDays2020 · 13/02/2024 11:57

SirChenjins · 12/02/2024 17:37

This is a plain loaf - food of the gods

That looks amazing! A bit like tiger bread?

SummerDays2020 · 13/02/2024 12:00

Garlicdoughball · 12/02/2024 17:43

I’ve never heard random “please” added to sentences by English people

We say please like that in SE England.

SummerDays2020 · 13/02/2024 12:02

MirandaPr1estly · 12/02/2024 17:42

When English people describe something being in or on something else, they never say “it”. For, example an English person would say they like orange juice with bits in but I’d have to add “it” at the end or it would sound odd.

Also things like where’s you dress from, please? I’ve never known a Scottish person to say please when asking that type of question, it doesn’t feel necessary.

I don't know how much of a class thing it is but I was brought up middle class and we didn't add please when asking a question but my working class DP gets very upset with me if I don't say the please! SE England.

SummerDays2020 · 13/02/2024 12:07

MirandaPr1estly · 12/02/2024 18:09

Did I say anything about West Yorkshire 😂. I’m sure she said she’s from Essex.

It was probably me. Yes, we say that in Essex.

SummerDays2020 · 13/02/2024 12:19

My dressing gown is a towelling material so yes a bath robe really but not white (and not stolen! Plenty to buy in the shops!) and my DC's dressing gowns are a different material but definitely no embroidery! We just use dressing gown/robe interchangeably.

SummerDays2020 · 13/02/2024 12:24

Ultravox · 12/02/2024 23:28

I’m Scottish and lived in SE England for quite a few years but now back in Scotland. England is a diverse country so I guess the differences really relate to the SE but I found it disconcerting that there were so many differences between the two countries.

Driving - I found motorway driving more aggressive in England. I guess there’s more people and more traffic which accounted for it but always felt like people were so slow when I drove back to Scotland

Sunday Lunch - my family always did a roast dinner in Scotland at about 6pm so the English “lunchtime” aspect took me by surprise even though the clue is in the name!

Alcohol & drugs - it was clear that Scotland had more of an issue with this. Many of my English colleagues and flatmates had never taken any drugs whereas I could barely name a person from home who hadn’t tried something. This could just have been the local areas I was in though!

Money - again probably just where I was living in each country, but far more English people appeared to have well off families and eg. went skiing every year or got assistance for a house deposit.

Opening hours - been mentioned a few times but I could never get used to the shops shutting on Sundays in England. I actually liked the idea of it for a peaceful day but always forgot.

Talking to strangers - happens ALL the time in Scotland & usually have a chat with cashiers at tills too. I found it rarely happened in England.

Words - Lots of language differences - I hadn’t realised some words I used were Scots! I discovered that I used the word “wee” to mean “little” all the time which English colleagues thought it was hilarious.

and the obvious one:

Weather - it was only when I moved to the SE that I realised that people actually wore those kind of summer clothes I saw in magazines! My flatmates thought I was mad when I sunbathed in the garden in the first warm day…I didn’t realise the sun might come out for several days in a row 😂

I do know plenty of people who dabbled in drugs as teenagers but not anymore. As for chatting with cashiers etc. I have to say it happens all the time for me! That made me laugh about the sun! 😂

SummerDays2020 · 13/02/2024 12:27

In Essex we have plenty of pakoras - bit nearer for you to come!