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Cultural differences Scotland and England

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CauleyMacGlochlin · 11/02/2024 15:14

So surprised to see on a recent thread that in England secondary school pupils are often not allowed out of school for lunch until 6th form, which Google tells me means 16-18. I'm gobsmacked. I've never heard of anything like this in Scotland and I've lived all over the country (grew up in Glasgow and moved around in adulthood)

I also recently discovered that English school pupils can't leave education at 16. They have to stay in education til 18 unless they have an apprenticeship.

Got me thinking about cultural differences between the countries that I've maybe been oblivious all this time. Any others?

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Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 17:49

Oh ye canny fling pieces oot a twenty storey flat
700 hundred hungry weans’ll testify tae that
If it’s butter, cheese or jeely
If the breid be plain or pan
The chances o’it reachin' earth
Are ninety-nine tae wan

SirChenjins · 12/02/2024 17:51

Garlicdoughball · 12/02/2024 17:48

I think some of these generalisations about “English people” are very odd. My mum was from Yorkshire, my brother lives in the NW of England, I used to live in London - many of these “English” and “Scottish” things are totally alien to me. To me many of these things are far more about UK regional difference than Scottish/English cultural difference.

Tbh, a lot of the Scottish things mentioned on here are also regional! I agree, I think that many are more about UK regional differences.

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 17:51

usedtobeasizeten · 12/02/2024 17:37

I don’t use ‘the now’ but very commonly used here….’when are you going?’ ‘I’m going the now’

Och aye the noo!

(Except NOBODY actually says this…)

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MirandaPr1estly · 12/02/2024 17:53

Garlicdoughball · 12/02/2024 17:43

I’ve never heard random “please” added to sentences by English people

I see it on mumsnet and Instagram regularly, in fact, the lovely English poster on this thread said something like “what do you mean, please?”.

It’s just an observation not a judgement.

usedtobeasizeten · 12/02/2024 17:53

Or ‘Hoots mon!’

Delphiniumandlupins · 12/02/2024 17:58

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 13:19

I think it’s a bit of an understatement to say “There are some Catholic schools”.

The reality in many parts of Scotland is that it would be unthinkable to go to a non-denominational school if you are Catholic (by which I mean culturally Catholic rather than an active churchgoer). Catholic schools are widely provided by the state to cater for this.

I went to a high school that was supposedly non-denominational and I did not have a single Catholic fellow pupil. They all went automatically to the Catholic schools. The Catholic secondary was just as big and modern as the non-dom schools. There were buses in to the Catholic High school from a wider area than for the ND schools. There was serious, nasty rivalry between the schools including (I kid you not) people throwing things at the Catholic school bus as it went past. Horrible. This was not in Glasgow or Dundee.

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I know quite a few non-Catholic families who send their children to Catholic primary or secondary schools. And Catholic families who have used a non-Catholic primary at least. Sometimes people are just choosing the nearest school/school with the best academic reputation/school with the best music department..... Sectarianism is an outrage but often seems to be pushed by a very small minority (eg busing "marchers" into an area for an Orange Parade)

Garlicdoughball · 12/02/2024 18:02

MirandaPr1estly · 12/02/2024 17:53

I see it on mumsnet and Instagram regularly, in fact, the lovely English poster on this thread said something like “what do you mean, please?”.

It’s just an observation not a judgement.

I doubt they are from West Yorkshire

Garlicdoughball · 12/02/2024 18:06

Delphiniumandlupins · 12/02/2024 17:58

I know quite a few non-Catholic families who send their children to Catholic primary or secondary schools. And Catholic families who have used a non-Catholic primary at least. Sometimes people are just choosing the nearest school/school with the best academic reputation/school with the best music department..... Sectarianism is an outrage but often seems to be pushed by a very small minority (eg busing "marchers" into an area for an Orange Parade)

Yes, I know quite a few non-Catholic people who have applied for their children to the local Catholic school if they think it’s better than their non-denom catchment option.

MirandaPr1estly · 12/02/2024 18:09

Garlicdoughball · 12/02/2024 18:02

I doubt they are from West Yorkshire

Did I say anything about West Yorkshire 😂. I’m sure she said she’s from Essex.

Delphiniumandlupins · 12/02/2024 18:15

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 17:54

This is incredibly accurate, and hours of fun. It distinguishes very clearly between Scottish dialect expressions, to a very granular level.
British Dialect quiz map

We were very impressed with the accuracy of this. Many of my family have been raised in one area then spent large amounts of time living in another area(s) and this caught a lot of the regions.

Garlicdoughball · 12/02/2024 18:19

I’ve never met a Scot called Toby.

Delphiniumandlupins · 12/02/2024 18:23

Cancelledcurio · 12/02/2024 05:24

@Delphiniumandlupins Scottish person here living in South of England. We get free tampons and pads here as well. Widely available in chemists, local libaries, play grouos, schools etc and works . Scotland has free tutions fees granted but I wouldnt boast about that as the gap between the poorest students and richer students attending Scottish unis are getting wider than even Tory England . That isn't anything to be proud of . And Scotland has the worst drug death rate in West Europe . I personally find that heart breaking .

Gap between poorest students and richer students attending Scottish unis ... getting wider in what sense? Their outcomes after uni or their family's household income when they start or some other measure? Scottish universities include a couple which attract more than their share of wealthy southerners (St Andrews and Edinburgh)

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 12/02/2024 18:25

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 17:54

This is incredibly accurate, and hours of fun. It distinguishes very clearly between Scottish dialect expressions, to a very granular level.
British Dialect quiz map

Aw I'd like to do this but you have to subscribe

purpletrees16 · 12/02/2024 18:28

Itslegitimatesalvage · 12/02/2024 09:38

No it isn’t. I’m Scottish, I’ve known a handful of people who say tea for their evening meal but literally a handful. Everyone I’ve known in south Lanarkshire, then uni in glasgow, then Aberdeen them back to south Lanarkshire says breakfast, lunch and dinner. I do think it’s a hangover from the old class system and how you’re grandparents would have spoken.

My granny and therefore, my father always said/says tea (and me until I slid away what with over 15 years in London). Her accent and heritage is countryside NE Scotland (north of Aberdeen) and she was a daughter of a farm labourer. She was a nurse.

Lots of Aberdonians say tea in my experience. You’ll be awa’ for your tea etc.

Though you are right that it’s generally when “code-switched” to full Doric.

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 18:35

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 12/02/2024 18:25

Aw I'd like to do this but you have to subscribe

No, I don’t think so. Let me check.

galliverstravels · 12/02/2024 18:39

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 17:49

Oh ye canny fling pieces oot a twenty storey flat
700 hundred hungry weans’ll testify tae that
If it’s butter, cheese or jeely
If the breid be plain or pan
The chances o’it reachin' earth
Are ninety-nine tae wan

That's in my head for the night now. Ah'm a skyscraper wean I love oan the 19th flair, ah'm no gaw'n oot tae play onny mair... 🎵

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 18:47

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 18:35

No, I don’t think so. Let me check.

I do subscribe now, but I am fairly sure I did that quiz for free years ago, and that NYT have a number of free articles before you have to pay.

However I’ve sent you a share link by DM.

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 18:50

Garlicdoughball · 12/02/2024 18:19

I’ve never met a Scot called Toby.

My best friend’s dog was called Toby in the eighties, does that count?

I remember bringing home a boy called Julian after I went to university in England, my parents were highly amused to meet one in the flesh.

therealcookiemonster · 12/02/2024 18:55

this thread is a fascinating read especially as I have never had the pleasure of being North of hadrian's wall. just wanted to ask... are haggis farmed or are they hunted in the wild? I tried to find some photos of the beast, but Google was no help. can one of the kind Scottish mumsnetters kindly help me out with some photos please?

thank you kindly

Garlicdoughball · 12/02/2024 18:58

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 18:50

My best friend’s dog was called Toby in the eighties, does that count?

I remember bringing home a boy called Julian after I went to university in England, my parents were highly amused to meet one in the flesh.

That really is most excellent.

pitterypattery00 · 12/02/2024 19:15

@therealcookiemonster they are commonly found in the wild

Cultural differences Scotland and England
Lifebeganat50 · 12/02/2024 19:27

Garlicdoughball · 12/02/2024 18:19

I’ve never met a Scot called Toby.

I work with one

Seymour5 · 12/02/2024 19:29

Lifebeganat50 · 12/02/2024 11:45

And even within (as opposed to outwith🤣) Dundee the accent varies wildly from unintelligible oary to perfectly normally spoken English!

Oary! 😄 I grew up speaking fairly standard Scottish (English but with a Scots accent). In those days everyone was expected to speak reasonably at School. It was a struggle for those whose families used strong local dialect and associated grammar. Y’ken hen?