Tattle Code.... I know, I know....

[Hoglet70]

I'm about to burst not being able to reply to stuff! Someone help me please!

(Yes, I know it's sad and I know everyone asks but I'm a very sad individual and er... yeah that's it really).

Its an outlet to discuss the lunacy of the social media world we live in.

I don’t understand why it isn’t a private forum? I get that there are a lot of bad things about social media but one of the great things about it is freedom of speech. In most cases anyone can post and anyone else can respond to it with their opinion. It seems to me that Tattle is a site for people to broadcast their horrible opinions about other people (presumably in the hope that the person they’re talking about sees it and feels bad about themself) and no-one can say anything about it unless they have an exclusive invite code.

Not really. If the posters are actively posting their comments on the influencers page, that would be trolling imo.

a forum to discuss influencers where said influencers are not obligated to view is not it. ( yet majority of them can’t keep away, you even had one influencer ruin her own career by posting on the forum)

its very easy to dismiss tattle as ‘bitchy’ because mainly its women who read and post. Yes there the odd OTT posts/threads but no worse than the AIBU forum.

a lot of valid points are raised along with influencers dishonesty, especially around paid content.

Then why isn’t it a private page or why can’t anyone comment on it? Anyone can respond to things on AIBU, if they think what’s said is unfair. If Tattle Life was full of men saying the sort of thing that’s on there, it would’ve been shut down long ago. If you really think you’re calling out people conning others by not disclosing ads why not do it on another forum where the everyday person will actually read it. I just don’t get why you care so much about what these people are doing and how they live.

Just to add I don’t personally know anyone discussed on there. I just find it incredibly sad that there’s this whole site dedicated to women taking down other women. Just make it private so the rest of us don’t have to stumble across it and feel really disappointed by the whole thing.

It's not just about women. Plenty of men criticised on there.

The Philip Schofield one was pretty spot-on.

I find this attitude rather odd- you don’t like it that’s fair enough but you’re equally judgmental about people posting on another forum.

just let people post what and where they want and if it ‘disappoints’ you then don’t view. It doesn’t need to be hidden away lol

same goes for the tattle lot that discuss MN threads and posts.

Women so rarely are able to discuss what they feel and how they feel without constant judgments or being called names like Karen or whatever, if that’s their safe space to voice their anger and frustration let them be

You’re probably right, I am being a bit judgemental, I just don’t get it. I don’t understand why they’re so angry about these women they’ve never met. And I genuinely think that there are plenty of places online for women to express their feelings. I don’t think it should be hidden specifically, I just think if it only allows certain people to express their opinion, it should be a private chat.

Sorry to jump in, can anyone help me with an invite code please?