If having kids really took its toll on your marriage, how old was your youngest when things improved?

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Assuming they did improve. I’m more interested in hearing from those who got back on track than those who split up.

It was idyllic until the teen years.

I think it depends on what the problem is. As said before, I don't think it gets any easier as they get older, just different sets of frustrations, worries.