Hi, looking for advice.
More than ten years ago I found messages on my husband’s phone that made me think he was having an affair. I’d checked his phone because he suddenly seemed to be on it all the time. He was messaging a work colleague. The messages included things like sorry for following you round today, I couldn’t resist x
I asked him many times what was going on and he denied anything was. I let it drop for various reasons.
Our relationship now is not good. I keep going over this.
Any advice?