This is an extremely complex topic, similar to those such as which life extending drugs should be funded or not.
It boils down to one thing, our beliefs as a society and how we justify them but it gets translated into MONEY.
Society as a whole can't grasp well enough how things are organised and spent, it's just too complicated for most of us ( myself included) to really get to grips with it so we try to simplify things and end up with not a true picture .I can't say for sure how much money as a society we spend on certain things, so there's no way for me to know what I would agree or not agree on. I imagine that a large part of money is spent on self serving interests of those in charge, but again, I don't know the specifics. I say a "large part" but if there's no limit then god only knows!😆
Speaking as someone with a disabled family member in a home type facility I can see why someone like the man in the article would not want this, but saying all places are like old people's homes where autonomy is reduced to zero is also not entirely correct.
It's obvious that you would ideally want "the best" for everyone, so that everyone could fulfil their potential and live their best life, but life and society doesn't work that way. It especially doesn't work that way when to have one thing we rely on the choices of others to enable this to happen.
When it comes to care work we are essentially relying on a part of society to look after another part, and that costs money, and because we are now talking numbers and not in terms of a perceived basic standard of living, people find it difficult to agree on what's morally right.
If we ask someone if it's acceptable to be able as an individual to choose when to do basic things, we'd all say yes. However often if you see how much it costs to pay to enable this, then people will start saying no.
I personally think that's because we think that we have finite amount of money and if we spend on something we automatically have less on something else. We find it hard to accept that some individuals get 100s of thousands spent on them,to improve their lives, yet others seemingly don't.
It creates division in society and puts people against each other.
I personally don't know what the answer is, but I would say that if you ever feel a part of society is getting more than you, or more than they "should", a quick game of "would you swap lives with them?" can help to put things in perspective.