I had a second piercing in each earlobe about 12 years ago. I looked after them exactly as instructed, but they never settled down. They'd be fine for a week, but then swell up and leak pus (sorry!) And were very painful. This went on for about six months and I then decided to just leave the earrings out and let them heal up.
A while ago I accidentally put an earring through one of the second holes. I was really surprised because I assumed that after so many years, they'd healed up! I tried the other side and was able to easily slide an earring in there too. But a few days later, they've swollen up hugely and feel the same as they did when first pierced! I definitely didn't re-pierce them, the earrings slid in easily with no resistance. I don't understand why these holes do not like having earrings in them!! Any ideas how I can make them settle down?