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Back to cleaning and DS

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Shithole101 · 03/01/2024 12:16

I have to lay of the decorating because I'm getting short of money . Plus I'm neglecting the cleaning again I don't want it to become overwhelming again.

So my run down. Top floor I have dumped black bags of crap /rubbish is the spare room. Plus crap and washing on the landing. I hate going to the top floor going up and down .

Middle floor ds has dumped black bags of rubbish and crap on the landing. He has also dumped boxes etc in my bedroom and its proper pissing me of he's basically dumping his shit in my room in order to keep his room tidy. In gonna try talk to him ik a while.

Bottom floor I need to hoover the stairs, flattered boxes. Hoover mop floors

Oh and I need to clean all 2.5 bathrooms

My bins are all full . They don't come for another week. So I don't know what I'm meant to do . I do sometimes use the communal bins that belong to the flats. But only the odd bag here and there . I feel like the amount of rubbish I have would be taking the piss.

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Shithole101 · 03/01/2024 21:09

Would it be bad if I took some bags of rubbish to the communal bins ? They are not really for my use . But my bins are full and bin men don't come for another week. I don't want to go backwards with the house stuff.

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Someaddedsugar · 03/01/2024 22:31

I would use the communal bins as a one off so that you can get sorted 😊

AuroraForever · 03/01/2024 22:38

Is there anyone to help you take the bags of rubbish to your local tip? The sooner you get it out the house the less overwhelming it will be and will help motivate you to keep going. If not, I would use the communal bins to get it out. Could you tell DS that the next time he dumps shit in your room it’s going in the bin?

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Shithole101 · 03/01/2024 23:15

AuroraForever · 03/01/2024 22:38

Is there anyone to help you take the bags of rubbish to your local tip? The sooner you get it out the house the less overwhelming it will be and will help motivate you to keep going. If not, I would use the communal bins to get it out. Could you tell DS that the next time he dumps shit in your room it’s going in the bin?

I don't have anyone to help me . When.i say shit I.meant boxes from his Xmas gifts. I'm gonna speak to him though. It's not on he's done f-all to help me. And on top of that he dumping stuff in my room.

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CatPancake · 04/01/2024 00:24

You’re going to feel so much better getting rid of it all in one go. Could you afford a taxi to the local tip? As long as it’s dry/clean rubbish and a walk back?

or pay a waste disposal company to come and collect it?

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Shithole101 · 04/01/2024 01:13

CatPancake · 04/01/2024 00:24

You’re going to feel so much better getting rid of it all in one go. Could you afford a taxi to the local tip? As long as it’s dry/clean rubbish and a walk back?

or pay a waste disposal company to come and collect it?

No a taxi won't allow that .I would feel embarrassed As well. Disposal company would be quite expensive for the sake of what i have .

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