Is that you Heidi?
On a serious note, if you actually had to cover your 7yo eyes perhaps you need to work on their resilience ? Can you even take them out in public or are they the type that points at any one who looks different? "MUMMY WHATS WRONG WITH THEM?"
Or were you just attempting humour, at the expense of another woman's looks?
If you haven't made any New Year's resolutions yet I can suggest one for you...