I was in an abusive relationship with someone for 4 years and finally left him in April.
I confided in a friend what my ex has done to me and she has gone and contacted his family and told them really bad things about me. She didn't know my ex at all and nor his family. She didn't even know his surname. However she managed to do done detective work and find his mum and sister on Facebook and contacts them and tells them things I've confided her with. She has also made up stories telling them that I paid a witch Dr money to put black magic on him so that he gets arrested over Christmas suffers. All fabricated
My ex has been abusive in the past and the person who I thought was a friend has gone and done this, contacting his family and now it's gone back to him.
She has said im dangerous and that she's scared of me etc etc.
His family are now disgusted with me and I'm made to look like the bad one.
She has appologised for messaging them and said that one day il see that and it's because she's worried about me. How is contacting my abusive ex partners family going to make things better. She said that the fact I told her that I still miss the good things I had despite the fact I still hate him, I needed help! Just because I miss certain things doesn't mean I want to get back with him!
This has made everything 10 times worse. She said age did it because sge was worried. What kind if a friend does this?
She did this in the 23rd December, the sane day she messaged me normal. I found out on Christmas day. It was only when I had it out with her that she admitted it.
I've had lumpectomy few weeks ago and sge sad that I need to forget snout him and relax. Everything was ok until she did this and then tells me I need to relax?!
Two dats before she contacted them, we went out for food, acting normal with our kids. The next day she was the same. Ic I hadn't had found out, Ilshe wouldn't had told me.
I'm absolutely fuming.
How would you feel? Need some advice really.
I've contacted the police regarding this because she has contacted my abusive partners family who have gone and told him so I need to tell the police because I was worried what would happen next.
Her messages were saying she approached ot the wrong way and one day il see that and that its not normal to miss someone who abuses you. She twisted the whole thing because I said I miss CERTAIN things BUT still hate him.
I told her I'm going to the police. She said "it's Christmas day and you're reporting me? You need to really stop this"
She has gone out of her way trying to cause drama. This is how I feel. She must had spent alot of time trying to find his family on Facebook so the whole thing is premeditated. And then she's telling me that I really need to stop ?!