It's not my business but

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I know its none of my business not my problem etc . But ex has the kids every other weekend . He never ever says no to them . Dad can I have this dad can I have that they are always coming back with toys and god knows what else. It's Xmas in a few days and he's still buying them stuff. Reality is I know I have no real reason to moan. Some fathers can't be bothered with their kids. But i don't think its could for kids to constantly get what they want and never being told no .

I suppose i feel a like he's the good parent and I'm shit because im the one to say no.

he's the good parent and I'm shit because im the one to say no.

Wrong.
He’s the shit parent because he just gives them what they want, anything for a quiet life. That’s pretty poor parenting imo!

They are pretty easy kids they don't play up . He just won't say no . I guess shit parent was the wrong word . But kids would see him as the better parent because they get what they want