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Britney Spears... What to make of it

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itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 09:19

I've watched some of the videos she's posted over the past months-year.

Just watched one from 3 hours ago.

I still don't know what to think.

I don't know if she's repeatedly dancing like this because she was denied freedom for so long, or is she suffering from some mental health issues, does she just want to do it?

I feel sorry for her but I just don't know what to make of it.

I don't understand why there's no one around her, husband etc helping her? Or does she not need to be helped

www.instagram.com/reel/C0QmUFwu0bf/?igshid=ZWI2YzEzYmMxYg==

Link to her recent vid

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itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 11:09

@ItsTheCurtains
Good for you. I can't. I'm too honest as there's little emotion. It could be a faux concern and you can believe that if you want, it makes no odds to me.

Nowhere have I suggested I'm trying to help or be kind.
I've stated my intentions. You can disbelieve if you like, I'm not fussed.

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itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 11:09

bellac11 · 30/11/2023 11:08

Its why the whirling dervishes go into a trance like state, which they view as being on another plane. Its just the way the brain works.

So interesting. Thanks for sharing that.

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ItsTheCurtains · 30/11/2023 11:11

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itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 11:13

@ItsTheCurtains Ah okay so you know how to help her now? Gotcha.

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CotswoldGal · 30/11/2023 11:14

RudsyFarmer · 30/11/2023 09:30

I think she had a theme with each dance. The pulling down of her knickers troubles me and I’m not even sure why as she’s a grown woman. She looks spaced out and she knows her sons absolutely hate her doing this. If she is mentally unwell then she’s vulnerable and watching a famous, vulnerable women try and do erotic dances to titillate (I’m guessing) feels somehow dirty for the voyeur.

This 100%

ItsTheCurtains · 30/11/2023 11:18

itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 11:13

@ItsTheCurtains Ah okay so you know how to help her now? Gotcha.

I am not trying to help her. I don’t know her. Her personal life is not my business. Nor is it yours but you keep ignoring that fact despite being told it repeatedly.

But as some of us have told you this sort of gossiping is further damaging and you keep stamping your foot and saying ‘but I didn’t mean it like that’ - that doesn’t make it okay. Speculating on someone’s mental health and their personal life after they have been through a life of shit is really unpleasant. It doesn’t help, it damages people. It’s her life, you aren’t entitled to know anything about it.

You keep saying you ‘just want to know more’ then why not go and Read her book?? And stop gossiping online.

bellac11 · 30/11/2023 11:18

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In terms of chit chatting about Britney, your comments dont make sense. She has put herself on an international, open to everyone social media forum. She is performing and entertaining via that platform.

So people are going to talk about that, why wouldnt they. Some might say she looks fab, great dancing. Some might say terrible dancing, terrible outfit, looks terrible. Some might say 'Im worried about her, she's vulnerable/ill/exploited'

Do you go to cinema, theatre, watch telly and not make any comment about what you thought about it, to yourself or anyone else??

itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 11:21

@ItsTheCurtains Why did she release the book, sorry?

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ItsTheCurtains · 30/11/2023 11:23

itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 11:21

@ItsTheCurtains Why did she release the book, sorry?

To let you into the parts of her life she wants to reveal. Not so you can go online and speculate about what secret messages her eyes are trying to tell you and further fanning flames and rumours that probably cause her and her children a lot of stress.

itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 11:24

@ItsTheCurtains I thought you said the answers to my questions were in her book?

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ItsTheCurtains · 30/11/2023 11:28

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bellac11 · 30/11/2023 11:31

I just think its normal human nature to wonder about other humans. We are a social species. It doesnt matter that she is famous. If the woman next door started acting in a way that people spoke about, you would probably mention this to your husband or children, you'd wonder what was going on for her.

Im not convinced there is anything wrong as such, she is just doing a dance, its what she likes doing I would assume and by the looks of it she looks amazing and is good at it, very precise, this isnt someone who is wildly flinging herself around without practice and attention, therefore I wouldnt say she needs 'help' based on that one video

But then as I say I dont know what else is out there.

ItsTheCurtains · 30/11/2023 11:33

bellac11 · 30/11/2023 11:31

I just think its normal human nature to wonder about other humans. We are a social species. It doesnt matter that she is famous. If the woman next door started acting in a way that people spoke about, you would probably mention this to your husband or children, you'd wonder what was going on for her.

Im not convinced there is anything wrong as such, she is just doing a dance, its what she likes doing I would assume and by the looks of it she looks amazing and is good at it, very precise, this isnt someone who is wildly flinging herself around without practice and attention, therefore I wouldnt say she needs 'help' based on that one video

But then as I say I dont know what else is out there.

I think there is a big difference to be concerned about someone and want to genuinely help and to use that concern as an excuse to have a good online bitch, sorry ‘learn’ about someone.

OnAir · 30/11/2023 11:33

She looks like she's on drugs

itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 11:36

@ItsTheCurtains You're just contradicting yourself.

You asked me how I'm helping her. I said that wasn't my intention. You then go on to try and help her by infantilizing her.

You told me the answers to my questions are in her book which I'm entitled to discuss but then say I can't discuss it.

You're saying now that she and her kids are reading a Mumsnet thread and I'm twisting the knife into someone who doesn't even know of my existence?

All this over a discussion of a celebrity's life which she willingly put out there.

I think you've just come to try to argue or make yourself feel better but the discussion isn't going anywhere so I won't engage with you further.

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ItsTheCurtains · 30/11/2023 11:36

OnAir · 30/11/2023 11:33

She looks like she's on drugs

See@itzbritneybitch and @bellac11 ? This is EXACTLY what I’m talking about. Threads like this create comments like this and then other people come on and read them and start saying ‘she’s on drugs’. It’s fucking damaging. This is how dangerous rumours start. You can call it learning or curiosity all you want, but it’s damaging and dangerous and really fucking unfair.

itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 11:38

You're blaming us for someone else's views now? Christ.

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PullUpPrince · 30/11/2023 11:39

I view Britney as a mature women who’s never been allowed to mentally and emotionally mature. I feel like she’s playing out her adolescence now and we’re all viewing it.

ItsTheCurtains · 30/11/2023 11:39

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Dontgivemeplants · 30/11/2023 11:39

I'm really distressed after watching that video. I really wish I hadn't. I had no idea about any of this.

ItsTheCurtains · 30/11/2023 11:39

itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 11:38

You're blaming us for someone else's views now? Christ.

No, I’m blaming you for giving those views a platform.

Freakinfraser · 30/11/2023 11:50

Dontgivemeplants · 30/11/2023 11:39

I'm really distressed after watching that video. I really wish I hadn't. I had no idea about any of this.

How can yoh be really distressed when you’re not even bothered enough to loosely follow her. She’s been at it since the conservatoire ended, this video is tame and relatively tasteful in comparison to some of the stuff, we had full on nudes for a while with just emojis covering her nipples and genitals.

millymog11 · 30/11/2023 12:02

Not read the whole thread

I've watched a 3 second clip of something she apparently posted very recently where she is basically naked.

My interpretation is that she was pimped out and commercialised from a very very young and impressionable age. By "pimped out" I do not mean she was having sex, I mean both of her parents and any other care givers either cynically or negligently/out of ignorance allowed her to be commercialised and moetized to an extreme degree, her whole personality and ego is built on the idea she is, very literally, the girl/woman you see in the 1998 video of Hit Me Baby One More Time.

Mentally and emotionally she is a school girl, in her head literally the only way to get attention from anyone is to be that persona. There is nothing else inside apart from a very sad realisation that the price she paid for being a pimped out schoolgirl forever is that a lot of people, some of whom were supposed to love and protect her, have become and been very wealthy and comfortable off the back of that all these years.

You just have to contrast her with Taylor Swift who woke up to it (and is probably brighter and has more protective parents) and took back control by re releasing her music in 2021 onwards. Britney by contrast is on a never-ending lets go round again and the older she gets the more ridiculous it appears. I don't get the feeling she is desperately unhappy but I do think she is mentally deluded and therefore mentally ill.

seagull82 · 30/11/2023 12:06

itzbritneybitch · 30/11/2023 09:29

Of course.
I'm just trying to understand if this is as a result of that, is she being exploited by her husband or anyone else.

She was sexualised at a young age so that part doesn't surprise me

She isn't with her husband anymore. I don't what to make of her either.. perhaps now she was forced to take medication for years and now she doesn't have anyone controlling her she's chosen not to take them and that's why she's struggling mentally, she doesn't look happy and it's sad that her children don't speak to her.

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