In the office we were talking about haircuts during covid and how we had to cut our kids hair. I showed a photo of me with my two kids taken during this time, about three years ago - it's a happy photo with us all smiling and the kids have very short, and slightly uneven, fringes. I had just cut them.
My colleague said 'you have really aged since that photo'... I thought she was joking and kind of laughed but she said it again - emphatically. 'You have really aged since that photo was taken'. She was serious. I was so shocked I didn't say anything. Is this not totally rude?!
It was only 3 years ago.. I'm 46 now and was 43 in photo. My hair was a bit blonder then but I don't think I'm that different. It's been playing on my mind all weekend. I would never say that to someone! Just looking to vent.