Termination was 12 months ago- it was very much unplanned pregnancy which I can attribute to literally one time with DH. I hadn’t been in my job very long and we wanted more savings behind us so I had a really early medical termination at 4+4. It was straightforward as they can be but a horrible thing to have to do.
After finding it difficult to process we realised we wanted to TTC so have got ourselves to a place we feel we can provide for a DC and began trying.
Not fully out yet as period hasn’t arrived but negative tests so far. When period arrives it will be cycle 3. I know relatively that isn’t a long time but I know of lots of people who conceived immediately, technically including us only 12 months ago. I saw an article that said really if there’s no underlying issues couples under 30 generally conceive within 3 months. We are in our mid 20s.
It’s obviously approaching 3 months now - 60% of couples with no issues would’ve conceived by now and I feel torn up that I chose to terminate… what if that was our one chance. :(