So- I went on a date with a guy last Sunday. I thought we hit it off fairly well. He even asked me to stay about for longer and grab a drink after the date so I did, went super well.
Anyway, we messaged back and fourth after the date on Sunday and Monday. Then suddenly I just heard nothing off him since and we’re on Thursday now? Which is weird. I wanted to text him and say “hey you okay☺️” but I also don’t want to feel like I’m begging him to talk to me??
We kissed after the date. We chatted back and fourth on the Sunday and Monday. The only thing I can think of was when I said to him “ would be nice to go out on a second date. And he said yes it would. And I said please don’t feel like I’m pressuring it. I just think it would be good to catch up. He said don’t be silly. It’s fine”
I then ended up replying like a day later because of work being silly busy. But yeah I just found it weird? I actually really enjoyed the date and it was his idea to go on a second one after and then even go out for more drinks so it was so strange?? I don’t want to look like a complete beggar
Honestly though. I typically ignore people too if the date didn’t go well. But I never got that impression with this one?