Why do people believe that all women are attracted to women

[Mary403]

Because as a straight woman I've heard many of people say that "all women are a bisexual" and I also had my Ex looking a threesome with another woman because he thought I was bisexual. I do know that some straight women watch lesbian porn but then in my opinion I dont believe you are straight if you get off to it and then these women will say things like "but even straight women are attracted to women".

Lol I wish that I was bisexual cause I cant stand men mostly and I prefer female company but womens bodies just dont turn me on especially minge which I really dont know why men are attracted to it

"People" don't believe that, because most people have the intelligence to understand that women aren't a homogenous group with singly defined absolute desires.

The type of person who spouts this nonsense usually have an agenda to push.

People like who? Nobody has ever said this to me irl at all.

Isn't this just based on a male fantasy?

Do they?

What 'people?' I don't think it. And no-one I know has said they do.

Ew, who uses the word minge in 2023.

I'm bisexual but didn't realise this for ages because there's such a strong message that it's typical heterosexual behaviour to have romantic friendships in your teens and crushes on women and to think about woman in a sexual way. And it's sort of human nature to think everyone is more or less like you, so I just believed it and wasn't until I read threads on here where straight women talked about how they genuinely didn't find women attractive and the thought of having sex with a woman was unpleasant that I actually believed that straight women didn't fancy other women

The only people I know who say this are teenage boys. (Or grown men with the mentality of teenage boys.)

Teenagers and low-quality trolls.

Go and have an early bath before you go to bed.

Same here. I've never herd of this at all and I'm as old as Moses!

Wow, who thinks that?!

I'm sure many women here have had an experience like mine... a female friend once came onto me and I was just left stone cold. I wanted to want her but I just couldn't. It just didn't compute. She was objectively very beautiful and lovely. I've heard both men and women, gay and straight, have equivalent stories.

I used to hear similar but when I finally figured myself out, I think in restrospect it was from people who didn't want to hear that I thought I was gay, or thought I didn't want to be gay, so would explain it away by saying it was normal to find women more attractive than men. But there's a big difference between finding someone aesthetically attractive and finding them sexually attractive.

A difference that I wish I'd understood much earlier in life.

You must mix with a strange bunch.

@Mummymummy89 so you wanted to have her? Sounds like your attracted to women

I heard this from gay men at university, really pissed me off. They could not grasp that I genuinely had zero interest in sex with my own sex and seemed convinced it was homophobic not to want to be in their promiscuous gang. Was odd.

My teenager unreasonably drives me mad with his demanding me to answer the question ' why does everyone think...' Before coming up with a statement that hardly anyone believes.

I gave heard of some women who have, when they were older, left their husbands for women. But I wonder if that is because they felt they had conformed when younger, and were actually Gay.

I know a few that don’t mix with men at all, they have had boyfriends in the past, one was married but an old girlfriend turned her taste, the others I don’t think are in a “sexual” relationship, just social.

No. I wanted to want her. Because she was a good friend and I didn't want to hurt her feelings or damage the friendship. But I didn't want her. I was physically quite repulsed.

Jay, is that you?

Reading comprehension not your strong point? Perhaps that's why you believe in nonsense.