Could we?
I’d suggest some structure-
First three dates must be coffee shop type, pay your own way.
Dates to be set up by MNetters, so everyone comes with a basic recommendation- not a narc, not a cocklodger. A nice young man, knows how to do his own washing, but a rubbish cook. Lovely woman, sensible with money, doesn’t do wife work including laughing at crap jokes.
We could have a yes/no form to help people decide if they will be compatible- key MN values:
Loo brush?
shoes off indoors?
Eat at the table?
Parents allowed keys?
Underwear in bed?
Full decon routine when returning from outside?
It could work! 😉
And I have two single sons… good looking, solvent…, no mummy issues!