Son is in the armed forces, barley comes home because he is based miles away, when he comes home he always brings his girlfriend who is also in the army, who we get on with. Our youngest son, who is early teens finds having the girlfriend in the house super uncomfortable, tried doing lots of different things together to try and ease the situation but nothing has helped, he avoids using bathroom ect ( he’s at the awkward age round girls and sons gf is only 19)
if I say no gf so my eldest son, I know he’s going to take the hump and potentially not come home but on the other hand don’t want my youngest to feel uncomfortable over Christmas, the eldest got to enjoy Christmas in his younger years.