A thread for those having a crap time rn 😔

[madeinmanc]

They say "it's always darkest before the dawn", well it's pretty dark right now!

I can hardly remember the last time I did anything nice. This year has been awful in all honesty. All plans failed. Bad financial situation. Poor health. Heartbreak.

Anyone else want to join in my self-pity party? 🎉

💐for you. I’ve had a terrible few weeks but try to talk myself into happiness by acknowledging that it could always be worse. Sometimes it works, sometimes not! It’s ok to wallow if you need to.

When you say you haven’t done anything nice, can you do small nice things for yourself? I’m planning a nice dinner, wine and a boxset tonight. It doesn’t sound much but I’m really looking forward to it. Give yourself a tiny boost however you know how. And make some bigger plans if you can! Any friends who can pop round for a cuppa or something stronger?

I'm struggling too. Incurable health problems.are making me miserable.
There's nothing that I want to eat, nothing I want to watch. I can't find any motivation or enthusiasm for anything.

I actually won 100 on premium bonds this week but I can't think of anything to spend it on, because nothing I buy will make things better.

Both of you have my sympathies, but I don't know what to suggest, sorry xx