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Crap halloween givers

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WashingAt30 · 31/10/2023 19:15

It's nice when someone opens the door to you, and they at least smile, and maybe have a little chat about the DC's costumes. My god, some people don't even look happy, just shove a bag of sweets at you as close the door! I wouldn't be surprised if one creepy man we met was on some kind of offenders register. Why bother if you're not going to get into the spirt?!

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/11/2023 13:41

What I'm saying (though its not me saying it as its documented fact

It is just you, from another country, and a couple of other people on this thread saying it. And lots of people who actually did grow up here saying it was definitely an event when they were younger in 80s/90s, I do think our version is mostly influenced by the US though.

It can't be "documented fact" that we didn't celebrate it because that isn't actually true.

K4tM · 01/11/2023 13:41

Ah, Halloween in the 70s. Up North we didn’t have pumpkins, we had turnips which were really hard and took ages to carve. You could carry them on string and take them trick or treating. Sometimes we got chased away by cross house holders! Turnips lasted longer than pumpkins so you could take them to Bonfire night the next week. It was always freezing and we were allowed sparklers. It wasn’t as big as it is now, and it was just for children, not university students.

00100001 · 01/11/2023 13:47

Tambatamba · 01/11/2023 13:36

Halloween is annoying. WTF is the point of knocking on the doors of people you don't know just to get sweets? Just go and buy the sweets and chocolate from your supermarket. It's safer for one thing.

Halloween is part of US culture. It is a charity event. It works over there - it does not work here in the UK. And it's really quite rude to trick or treat here.

As for children knocking on doors asking for money, what brats!!

What's the point of anything?

Why bother going out for a meal.. just cook it yourself.

Why bother going to see a comedy, just watch it on TV.

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00100001 · 01/11/2023 13:47

DeeCee77 · 01/11/2023 13:34

I'm not denying anyone that says they celebrated it. What I'm saying (though its not me saying it as its documented fact) is Halloween is not a customary celebration in England.

And because it isn't is why you get some ignoramuses from England saying "americanism" in regards to Halloween, when there's nothing about Halloween that is bar using a pumpkin instead of a turnip.

It's been celebrated in England for centuries.

Finteq · 01/11/2023 13:52

Well I was really lucky

First time trick or treating with my kids.
And wasnt a hundred per cent sure of the etiquette.

Lots of people commenting on the costumes. And saying how nice they looked. And everytime my 6 year was told she looked scary- she got really happy.

Everyone who opened the door was really cheerful and the kids were just happy to be trick or treating.

One guy asked for a trick- and they just looked at me- we had rehearsed some jokes,but in the heat of theoment tgey forgot. But the man gave them some sweets anyway.

Half the time they were too timid to even say trick or treating so needed prompting.

Anyway.

We didn't get many knocks. But will definitely decorate the house for next year,and now I realise how happy it made my kid when someone talked about her costume or pretended to be scared of her- i'll do the same if someone knocks.

uncomfortablydumb53 · 01/11/2023 13:55

Did the kids even say " Thank you"!
Unbelievable
You're lucky people opened their doors

HardcoreLadyType · 01/11/2023 14:11

We rarely get any callers, although we didn’t even bother to decorate this year, now our youngest DC is at uni.

I always have sweets at the ready, though.

Last night there was a sharp knock at the door, and DH rushed to open it, and found an Amazon delivery on the doorstep. They’d left without even having some chocolate!

DeeCee77 · 01/11/2023 14:11

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/11/2023 13:41

What I'm saying (though its not me saying it as its documented fact

It is just you, from another country, and a couple of other people on this thread saying it. And lots of people who actually did grow up here saying it was definitely an event when they were younger in 80s/90s, I do think our version is mostly influenced by the US though.

It can't be "documented fact" that we didn't celebrate it because that isn't actually true.

Yes that's true, Halloween in England has been imported from the US, while Halloween was imported to the US (and Canada) from Irish and Scots.

And because Halloween isn't a customary celebration in England, having got it from US influence, you get ignorant English people thinking it's an "americanism", when the only thing american about Halloween is using a pumpkin instead of a turnip.

99% of Halloween is Irish/Scots.

Moonwatcher1234 · 01/11/2023 14:13

DeeCee77 · 31/10/2023 23:24

I can, because its documented. Why do you think there's almost nothing about Halloween from TV shows based in England until the 2000s?

Because Halloween, not being an English custom, was not celebrated in England.

Was it celebrated by tiny pockets there? (near the Scottish border, or a family with Irish roots, or a catholic family who don't mark 5th of November), sure, but that's it.

I've grown up (1980s Ireland) with Halloween stuff everywhere. At school (where I believe we are the only nation that has a Halloween break), at home, in the shopping centres, halloween took over. I then went to uni in England in the 90s, and there was nothing.

Okay, okay. I think we got the message by now. You celebrated Halloween your whole life long. Can’t believe this all came from
me calling it an Americanism - which by the way it very much is in the manner in which it is now observed.

x2boys · 01/11/2023 14:14

DeeCee77 · 01/11/2023 14:11

Yes that's true, Halloween in England has been imported from the US, while Halloween was imported to the US (and Canada) from Irish and Scots.

And because Halloween isn't a customary celebration in England, having got it from US influence, you get ignorant English people thinking it's an "americanism", when the only thing american about Halloween is using a pumpkin instead of a turnip.

99% of Halloween is Irish/Scots.

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The irony of you repeatedly calling the English ignorant
When you are refusing to believe what other posters,are telling you based on your OWN anecdotal. Experience, s.

DeeCee77 · 01/11/2023 14:50

x2boys · 01/11/2023 14:14

The irony of you repeatedly calling the English ignorant
When you are refusing to believe what other posters,are telling you based on your OWN anecdotal. Experience, s.

What have I stated that isn't true?

Halloween, an Irish/Scottish custom, exported by Irish/Scottish people to North America, who in turn exported it to other places (including England).

Guy Fawkes Night/November 5th, an English custom, has been the dominant celebration in England during this period of the year.

Now no-one with any sense is silly enough to argue any of this.

What some are disputing is the scale of the English celebration of Halloween. Until recently, it was tiny, as reflected by the paucity of English television shows with a Halloween theme until the 2000s.

Moreempatheticmyarse · 01/11/2023 14:54

DeeCee77 · 01/11/2023 13:17

Ok, go show me the tv Halloween specials from England (like you now see on Strictly).

I was back and forth between two major English cities (Liverpool and Manchester) and there was nothing, nada, zilch about Halloween.

Halloween in Liverpool across the ages as reported in the press

there was nothing, nada, zilch about Halloween.

Source please?

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Moreempatheticmyarse · 01/11/2023 14:54

More Halloween across the ages in Liverpool

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K4tM · 01/11/2023 15:20

Ooo yes, forgot about Apple bobbing 🎃 and other silly H’Ween Games we used to play back then. There wasn’t as much on the telly box though … only 3 channels and they didn’t broadcast during the day. No streaming, on demand or recording so not much survives. I’m sorry DeeCee77, your sample size of one based on the fact you grew up in a different country and so celebrated differently doesn’t mean H’ween wasn’t celebrated in England.

Moreempatheticmyarse · 01/11/2023 15:29

For the Chalet Scool fans amoungst us there is of course the infamous Halloween party where Thekla sets her frilly underthings on fire

Written in the 1930s, it may be set in Austria but it was full of British (mostly English) school girls and written for an British, mostly English, audience who were obviously expected to know what Halloween was a recognise some of the games such as bobbing for apples.

TheFireflies · 01/11/2023 15:31

Oh yes, the apple bobbing! Always fun and, looking back, absolutely disgusting!

I have also recalled Halloween songs that we used to sing at school when I was about six, can still remember the words.

Cultural celebrations are not measured by what was on TV, especially at a time when TV was very limited.

DeeCee77 · 01/11/2023 15:38

Those are great images. It also doesn't negate what I stated.

I was at Liverpool university in the 90s and there was nothing in the city shopping area based on Halloween. This was in complete contrast to what I was accustomed to in Ireland.

As I said previously, those with Irish roots in their family (many of which are in Liverpool, so those images are fitting), live near the Scottish borders, were more inclined to celebrate Halloween then.

There is no "Happy Halloween Mr Bean" episode (like there's a "Merry Christmas Mr Bean")...there is one in the animated Mr Bean though (from 2016)

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6691002/

This is an example of the change since the 2000s when Halloween grew in popularity in England. There was no Halloween themed dancing in Come Dancing, there has been in its successor Strictly.

"Mr. Bean: The Animated Series" Halloween (TV Episode 2016) ⭐ 7.2 | Animation, Comedy, Family

11m | TV-Y7

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6691002

Verv · 01/11/2023 15:38

DeeCee77 · 01/11/2023 13:17

Ok, go show me the tv Halloween specials from England (like you now see on Strictly).

I was back and forth between two major English cities (Liverpool and Manchester) and there was nothing, nada, zilch about Halloween.

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0200659/

Ghostwatch (TV Movie 1992) ⭐ 7.5 | Drama, Horror, Mystery

1h 31m | 12

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0200659/

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/11/2023 15:39

There was no Halloween themed dancing in Come Dancing

You're hilarious Grin

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/11/2023 15:42

Cultural celebrations are not measured by what was on TV

There was plenty of Halloween stuff on TV, this poster's inability to google or follow the links other people have posted is her own issue,

WrongSwanson · 01/11/2023 15:46

I definitely celebrated Halloween as a child in the 80s and 90s and that was in an upper middle class family in a fairly rural village, with parents who were reasonably uptight about things generally (our TV lived in a box room and only came out to be watched a few times a year!).we always had a Halloween party with friends, dress up and themed food and lots of people in the village went trick or treating.

x2boys · 01/11/2023 15:46

DeeCee77 · 01/11/2023 15:38

Those are great images. It also doesn't negate what I stated.

I was at Liverpool university in the 90s and there was nothing in the city shopping area based on Halloween. This was in complete contrast to what I was accustomed to in Ireland.

As I said previously, those with Irish roots in their family (many of which are in Liverpool, so those images are fitting), live near the Scottish borders, were more inclined to celebrate Halloween then.

There is no "Happy Halloween Mr Bean" episode (like there's a "Merry Christmas Mr Bean")...there is one in the animated Mr Bean though (from 2016)

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6691002/

This is an example of the change since the 2000s when Halloween grew in popularity in England. There was no Halloween themed dancing in Come Dancing, there has been in its successor Strictly.

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Meanwhile whilst doing my nurse training in Salford in the 90,s we had Halloween disco,pubs and clubs were decorated for Halloween and had halloween themed events etc ,unless you visited every single venue at Halloween during your time in liverpool then you really can't base.your individual experience on the Whole if England ,but I expect you will tell.me I'm wrong because you an Irish person knows better 🤔

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/11/2023 15:51

Paul Daniels Live At Halloween Mon 31 Oct 1988

As the 13th candle is lit, Paul Daniels and his special guest Eugene Burger take you once again into the world of the unknown on this, the most mysterious night of the year. Watch if you dare!

https://genome.ch.bbc.co.uk/ae0002a079664875953ae1076161b95c

"Halloween? What's that?" We all said

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/11/2023 15:53

Meanwhile whilst doing my nurse training in Salford in the 90,s we had Halloween disco,pubs and clubs were decorated for Halloween and had halloween themed events etc

Yes, same where I went to uni in the north

DeeCee77 · 01/11/2023 16:02

K4tM · 01/11/2023 15:20

Ooo yes, forgot about Apple bobbing 🎃 and other silly H’Ween Games we used to play back then. There wasn’t as much on the telly box though … only 3 channels and they didn’t broadcast during the day. No streaming, on demand or recording so not much survives. I’m sorry DeeCee77, your sample size of one based on the fact you grew up in a different country and so celebrated differently doesn’t mean H’ween wasn’t celebrated in England.

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Britain (more specifically England as British media is English centric) is a cultural behemoth; the second biggest on the planet. So this "only 3 stations" or "not much survives" doesn't wash.

Doctor Who...been going since '63....one Halloween special (from 2021)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Halloween_Apocalypse

There are endless examples of the change in its status in England.