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Will you be wearing a poppy?

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thingsthatmakeyougohmmmmmmmm · 29/10/2023 20:00

To support the work that the Royal British Legion do.

Nobody around here seems to be wearing one.

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noodlezoodle · 29/10/2023 21:04

Yes, to honour the dead from both world wars - although mine is a brooch because I'm not in the UK and poppies aren't a thing here.

For those saying that the far right are hijacking poppies, if 'ordinary' people stop wearing them, that's letting the far right have the symbol, which can't be a good thing.

MrsTerryPratchett · 29/10/2023 21:06

LongFaulks · 29/10/2023 20:31

Not anymore. The poppy has been hijacked by an unpleasant form of jingoistic flag waving fanaticism the irony of which is completely lost on so many people who are obviously performatively wearing theirs.

All the “of course” comments on this thread are a lovely case in point. As if wearing a poppy is some default activity for good and righteous British people in November.

This. It's depressing. If people want to help, give money to organisations working with the men and women who struggled after being in are armed forces. Homelessness, trauma centres, ex-offenders, you'll find some ex-service people with needs there.

As soon as it become an issue not to wear one, I stopped.

RoseMartha · 29/10/2023 21:08

I wear one of the metal pins same one every year then donate. For me it is not just about remembering those who died in WW1 and 2. It is remembering those who gave their lives in all wars since, and in conflicts which are currently happening. And remembering the lives of civilians who died in conflicts too.

WrongSwanson · 29/10/2023 21:08

roibustea · 29/10/2023 20:48

Of course. I don't understand a white one, do people think we should've just accepted the Nazis? And betrayed our alliances? Or is it to say we should have no military action ever again, no matter if our allies are invaded or new genocidal maniacs rock up and start gassing people? How about if we're invaded, can we defend ourselves? Sorry for all the questions, I've not heard of a white poppy before.

The rise of nazism and nazi Germany was a product of the circumstances it found itself in after the first world war. Which was an entirely unnecessary war in which millions of young men were used as cannon fodder to feed the egos of the ruling classes of Europe

The second war was a necessary fight but the completely unnecessary first war created the circumstances that led to it

Pinkpinkpink15 · 29/10/2023 21:08

Girlattheback · 29/10/2023 20:17

I donate but don’t take the poppy anymore because it’s plastic.

@Girlattheback

i didn't take the paper/plastic one.

I bought the bracelet small piece of elastic (not sure what that's made of, possibly some plastic? & metal/enamel) and the 2023 metal/enamel pin.

not sure if there's any plastic component, but if there is, it must be negligible.

@thingsthatmakeyougohmmmmmmmm

yes, I do & I do of my own free will & in memory of ALL who served our country.

fyn · 29/10/2023 21:09

Yes, DH is in the military and it’s an important charity. There are still British service people dying and it commemorates and supports all of them, not just those who died a hundred years ago.

We benefit also from charities like SSAFA and Tommy’s Little Soliders. We have also benefited in the last year from a lovely charity called Give Us Time that provided us with a lovely free holiday as DH had been deployed for such extensive periods.

Passepartoute · 29/10/2023 21:09

Not before November. I'm quite tempted to wear both white and red.

therealcookiemonster · 29/10/2023 21:10

nope nopitty nope. the young men who were butchered in the first world war as the generals sat in their comfy offices and then pushing Germany to the brink which allowed the rise of hitler, the holocaust and so many more unnecessary deaths. the whole thing was a shitshow and the history is grossly oversimplified and romanticised - the poppy is a symbol of that. and we continue sending our young people to war and kill millions so rich people get richer. instead give a proper donation for the veterans who are shamefully and criminally treated. so many are homeless, unable to access even basic support for injuries etc. poppies just make us feel better about ourselves without doing anything real.

MrsMitford3 · 29/10/2023 21:10

yes

1stTimeMama · 29/10/2023 21:10

I will be. For family, and all those from the 2 world wars, but also for those from more recent conflicts. For those lost in Iraq and Afghanistan, and those left to deal with the aftermath. My husband served for 27 years, and lost many friends. My son is a cadet, desperate to follow in his footsteps.

We will remember.

CurlewKate · 29/10/2023 21:11

Anybody who "doesn't understand" the white poppy-feel free to google. Not sure me paraphrasing Wikipedia is a good use of anyone's time.

AgaMM · 29/10/2023 21:11

Alopeciabop · 29/10/2023 20:56

would you mind telling me how? What you say about the far right? I don’t know anything about that

It’s used by the far right as a symbol in their propaganda, to try and reach out to a sense of patriotism, but it extends beyond ordinary patriotism to the kind that hates anyone not white.

Worriedmum159 · 29/10/2023 21:12

mpsw · 29/10/2023 20:58

I mentioned it because I read your post as criticising RBL and H4H for not doing something that is actually the work of a different charity. My apologies if I misunderstood.

A lot of the activities of the military charities are, as you will know, co-ordinated through COBSEO to minimise overlap. RBL do a hell of a lot of good work, but that doesn't mean they are the go-to for everything. However during the Poppy campaign, RBL are front and central

My experience is of vets being fobbed off rather than signposted. With a reading age of 9, it’s hard for people to do their own research. One of my legacy policy changes before I left was that no soldier in training should be left to make a complaint by themselves, it’s simply unfair that they get a policy document when the organisation has legal and policy advisers on call. Same applies to vets. The organisation takes advantage of their lack of understanding/education/whatever. The RBL should be doing more in this area.

thingsthatmakeyougohmmmmmmmm · 29/10/2023 21:13

fyn · 29/10/2023 21:09

Yes, DH is in the military and it’s an important charity. There are still British service people dying and it commemorates and supports all of them, not just those who died a hundred years ago.

We benefit also from charities like SSAFA and Tommy’s Little Soliders. We have also benefited in the last year from a lovely charity called Give Us Time that provided us with a lovely free holiday as DH had been deployed for such extensive periods.

thank you. good information.

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WrongSwanson · 29/10/2023 21:13

therealcookiemonster · 29/10/2023 21:10

nope nopitty nope. the young men who were butchered in the first world war as the generals sat in their comfy offices and then pushing Germany to the brink which allowed the rise of hitler, the holocaust and so many more unnecessary deaths. the whole thing was a shitshow and the history is grossly oversimplified and romanticised - the poppy is a symbol of that. and we continue sending our young people to war and kill millions so rich people get richer. instead give a proper donation for the veterans who are shamefully and criminally treated. so many are homeless, unable to access even basic support for injuries etc. poppies just make us feel better about ourselves without doing anything real.

Indeed.-"the old lie" , as Wilfred Owen said

Astrabees · 29/10/2023 21:13

No, I stopped buying one once the number of WW2 veterans had dwindled to nearly none. I don’t fell much sympathy for those who signed up voluntarily for later conflicts.

Hanlonsamazer · 29/10/2023 21:13

What’s Tommy’s little soldiers?

Karmakamelion · 29/10/2023 21:14

Yes. While the world wars were a long time ago. Other wars where military people died are not.
I feel grateful for their sacrifice and will always

Goodornot · 29/10/2023 21:16

PinkRoses1245 · 29/10/2023 20:13

No, never have and never will. The judgement to those who don’t is ridiculous. And it’s glorifying warfare.

Jesus wept. I don't think WW2 was glorified at all. Imagine if no one had stood in Hitler's way? Thank goodness for all of us they did.

villanova · 29/10/2023 21:16

I'm 54 but born to older parents. One of my uncles died in WWII, my dad died of injuries he sustained there, when I was a child. RBL supported my mother & me in a difficult time, she was a poppy seller locally for many years. I will wear my poppy to support RBL to return the favour they did me, and to remember my dad.

thingsthatmakeyougohmmmmmmmm · 29/10/2023 21:17

Hanlonsamazer · 29/10/2023 21:13

What’s Tommy’s little soldiers?

pp did you mean Scotty's little soldiers charity for bereaved military children.

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JayAlfredPrufrock · 29/10/2023 21:17

@therealcookiemonster

So now we are to blame for Hitler?

Dear fucking god.

mpsw · 29/10/2023 21:17

Worriedmum159 · 29/10/2023 21:12

My experience is of vets being fobbed off rather than signposted. With a reading age of 9, it’s hard for people to do their own research. One of my legacy policy changes before I left was that no soldier in training should be left to make a complaint by themselves, it’s simply unfair that they get a policy document when the organisation has legal and policy advisers on call. Same applies to vets. The organisation takes advantage of their lack of understanding/education/whatever. The RBL should be doing more in this area.

40% of recruits have a reading age of less than 11 (as reported by Defence Select Committee in 2013) but as the military is UK's single largest provider of adult education (including patching both literacy and numeracy) I'm not sure what the figure is for those leaving the Services. I'm genuinely interested - what's the source of the average reading age being 9?

sanityisamyth · 29/10/2023 21:18

Girlattheback · 29/10/2023 20:17

I donate but don’t take the poppy anymore because it’s plastic.

It's paper this year.

MrsTerryPratchett · 29/10/2023 21:19

JayAlfredPrufrock · 29/10/2023 21:17

@therealcookiemonster

So now we are to blame for Hitler?

Dear fucking god.

Are people really unaware of the geopolitical reasons for Hitler's rise to power?

Crack a book people.

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