Would you contact your exs sister to see how he was doing?

[Curious23x]

Bit of background we haven't spoken for almost 8 years. We last started to get close again at that time but he found out the girl he had recently broken things up with was pregnant so, he wanted to do right by her. I've found myself thinking of him the last couple of days and just wondering how he is but the only way to contact as I don't have numbers etc anymore would be via his sister.

Would you?

Leave the past where it belongs.

No one's contacted you either so they've moved on.

Nope, absolutely not. It's not fair to involve her in your relationship with her brother. Also, I'm sure you must be aware that she'll tell him you contacted her.

If you want to contact him, you should do that, but don't put someone else in the middle.

@Antst he is no longer on SM. He never used it much anyway, and I don't have current numbers so that's why it would be through her. Otherwise I do agree to not message via someone else.

No. Neither directly or through her.

No. How he is doing is none of your business anymore. Don't bother his sister.

No, move on

For godsake, move on. No do not contact

Is there another social media account you could use? You could try adding him on some other social media platform and if he doesn't respond, you'll have your answer.

Don’t. Leave it alone. If either of you had wanted to keep in touch you would have done it by now.

It's been 8 years if he wanted to be in touch he would have been.

I wouldn't.