Would you find this message weird?

[aretok]

If your partner, who lived with you, sent you this. Would you find it weird?

"Would love to catch you as soon as I am finished work. You looked so gorgeous yesterday"

No plans of meeting before he comes now

Yeah and I'm not even sure what's worse... A porn addict, or man who thinks "oh, it's my porn addiction, you see" is a perfectly decent (made-up) excuse not to have sex with you, like it's a bad knee or something.

All of this.

I'm sorry, @aretok - and also pleased you're about to be rid of a really not very good boyfriend!

Where does he work? Is there any chance of a stakeout to see if he actually leaves work at his normal time? I wouldn’t trust him at all but I would want proof, just to see for myself

Is he Welsh? If I type cwtch (hug/cuddle) it often autocorrects to catch.

I think he will be with another woman at the moment making plans, so if I were you, I would make your own plans. I'm so sorry, but it does sound as though it's been pretty shit anyway.

I hope you can update us on how you're getting on. This happened to me a few months ago and the shock is immense. (The messages for me were very clearly him cheating though, no way to misread it.)

Remember the sunk cost fallacy. Stayed with my cheater for way too long. Hope you're okay x