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Offering workmen teas/coffees (aibu)

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Bu22 · 13/10/2023 10:44

I just don’t know if I am being completely unreasonable here.

We have builders in at the moment (not in our flat but in the flat opposite which is owned by us).

Seeing as it belongs to us, I immediately started offering them teas/coffees the day the works commenced.

It’s not a problem when there is just 1, 2 or 3 workmen in at a time. But.. sometimes there’s 5-6 of them and because i’ve started it, they now just knock (twice a day usually) and ask for their teas & coffees.

Like I say, if there’s just a couple or a few of them I don’t mind at all. When i’m standing around making 5+ cups of different teas and coffees though, whilst looking after two young children, it gets a bit annoying. I’m also sick of seeing all the mugs left outside my door at the end of the day needing to be washed - although I suppose it’s good that they always give them back instead of leaving them laying about.

Part of me feels it is reasonable, part of me thinks it isn’t.

Although I can’t exactly turn around and say no even if I wanted to so I suppose I will just have to deal with it!

Bare in mind they’ve been in for nearly 3 months…. I’m done with the sight of the kettle atm! I even contemplated getting a cheap kettle for them but then that would probably look rude and where would they keep the milk…

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Princesspollyyy · 17/10/2023 11:46

KingsleyBorder · 17/10/2023 01:05

Surprised nobody has mentioned energy drinks, that’s what our builders seem to prefer to tea and coffee, which I offer but they turn down. Current lot are Albanian, ones before Romanian, maybe that makes a difference?

And do you provide those?

PB86 · 18/10/2023 11:53

Buy a cheap kettle and leave them everything they need to make brews. Get a bottle or jug that keeps the milk cold throughout the day. Then they can make as many as they like. They’re probably limiting themselves to 2 a day because of the faff of having to come over and ask, carry them back etc.

MellowYellow2023 · 18/10/2023 12:31

When we had builders off and on for a year, they knew my rule was I would make one cup a day for all of them when we would have a chat, then they would use either their flasks or they set up their own drinks station. Worked well.

KingsleyBorder · 19/10/2023 07:18

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KingsleyBorder · 19/10/2023 07:19

Princesspollyyy · 17/10/2023 11:46

And do you provide those?

No.

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