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Gimme your dating tips please!

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Diamondsandpearls1 · 08/10/2023 21:02

I am early 30s (female), on hinge, and trying to date. And oh my god it is soul destroying.

a) I don’t match with many people (even though I don’t think my profile is bad?)

b) when I do match with guys, most of them don’t reply or the conversation is extremely dry

c) I’ve been on a few dates earlier this year where only 1 or 2 led to a second date and I was either ghosted or rejected

I go through phases of deleting my hinge and then re-joining. I’ve recently joined again and it’s reminded me of how depressing it is.

Also it doesn’t help either that I get very attached to people as well.

So, any tips you have, then send them my way!!

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Diamondsandpearls1 · 08/10/2023 21:14

Bump

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Diamondsandpearls1 · 08/10/2023 21:53

Anyone?

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IDriveMySupernova · 08/10/2023 22:25

I’ve joined Hinge yesterday. I agree it’s shite. I matched with someone and exchanged a few messages. He used the phrase ‘big bag of dicks’ which gave me the instant ick. I’ve matched with two others who liked my pictures but they haven’t sent me a message.

Why do you get attached?

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