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Help me choose between two cars

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MissIndecisive2023 · 07/10/2023 13:26

My old VW Golf is falling apart and I’m going back to what I know which is a ford focus. As I am the world’s most indecisive person ever please don’t try to move my away from a focus as I’ve had one before, it’s known, and it’s also taken me about 2 years to come to that decision and I don’t have time to start again!

Went to the dealer today because I saw a car on their website that ticked all my boxes - 1 litre focus, mild hybrid, 2020 plate, 13000 miles, heated seats, within price range, like the colour etc etc.

Saw the car, and it’s nice, but then I saw it’s hotter, sexier, slightly more expensive friend next to it. Black, sleek, tinted rear windows, black interior, 1.5 litre engine, more oomph to drive. BUT it’s a 2019 car, 18000 miles, no heated seats, and more expensive (but right at top of budget, not outside). Would also be slightly more to insure.

So now I am stuck. My head says absolutely go for the sensible option, the insurance will be less, the hybrid will mean better fuel economy, it’s newer, fewer miles, it has things like heated seats and a rear cup holder thing that the other one doesn’t have.

But my heart really likes the other one. My last 2 car purchases have been sensible and boring because they have had to be - I went from a sports car to a very dull grey low spec focus so my now ExH could learnt to drive, and then I got the golf because the focus got old and I felt I needed a more secure car for the kids. The black car would absolutely be an indulgent treat for myself that would be more pleasurable, but also more expensive to drive.

So what do I do? Head or heart?!

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285NeuerNamen · 07/10/2023 16:56

Oakbeam · 07/10/2023 16:27

Heart. Heated seats make me feel like I’ve wet myself.

Me too! I hate a heated seat.

Definitely go with the black one, you will get a little daily bit of pleasure from it. Well worth it.

Lizzieregina · 07/10/2023 16:59

Normally I’m the Queen of Practicality and would recommend the “sensible” car, but there really seems to be very minor differences in these two, price wise, age wise, mileage etc, so I’m going against my own rules and saying live on the edge!

Disclaimer! I wouldn’t have a car without heated seats, but where I live, it’s routinely -15 to -20C in the winter mornings. Balmy temps like you have in the UK wouldn’t bother me 😆

MissIndecisive2023 · 07/10/2023 17:07

Hmmm, read all the comments about black cars just after I paid the deposit on the black car!!

Finally came to the conclusion that the next car will probably be sensible and boring for the DC to learn to drive in it so I’ll get something I enjoy for now.

Despite my 12yo spending all day telling me why I should get the blue one, he just sent me a text saying “Have you bought it yet? If not go with the black one, I know you love sports cars and haven’t had one in a while”. Love that boy!

And if it doesn’t work out, or I wish I’d gone sensible over sexy, I can just trade it in and go again. If I can bear having to make another decision!

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Oakbeam · 07/10/2023 19:37

You might be OK. I am always amazed at how clean the black cars are when I drive into the city. I live in the sticks and my black car gets dirty so quickly that I can’t be bothered to wash it.

Fairymother · 07/10/2023 19:48

Sorry i didnt read the whole thread.. Have you driven both cars? Drive them both and go with your gut feeling.

hennaoj · 07/10/2023 19:59

Glad you went with the black one, black cars look lovely freshly washed and polished.

MissIndecisive2023 · 08/10/2023 19:40

Fairymother · 07/10/2023 19:48

Sorry i didnt read the whole thread.. Have you driven both cars? Drive them both and go with your gut feeling.

Yes, drove them both. Did prefer the black one, although I did drive it second so difficult to know if it was just that I felt less nervous by that point!

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